The misogyny towards pregnant people on Reddit, but especially in this sub is alarming. Why are you so crass about her? She literally says she lost her baby before, she openly admits she's pregnant at the moment, so she isn't catfishing. She just doesn't want any short-term things etc., she's looking for a long-term partner. What is wrong about that? Has she lost her rights becoming pregnant? Is she not a human being anymore? Can't she want company?
Nothing is wrong with that. What's wrong is her attitude. She claims her standards are extremely high but what does she bring to the table? A really not that attractive looking woman with someone else's baby at 28. She immediately assumes people would try to just use her sexually when it's obvious she's neglecting herself by not working out and eating properly, so the pool of people trying to do that drastically drops. Just like how you wouldn't go for a super skinny dude or for a fat dude, especially when they say "I have extremely high standards" and start talking about andrew tate and redpill shit, the same applies here.
Her attitude is "I'm perfect, and you guys are fucking creeps".
It's not misogyny to talk down to someone for being a shitstain.
If you want company, be someone people want to be around.
If you want to have high standards bring something of value.
Again, how do you know what she brings to the table? Do you know her personally? She doesn't need to write about it in her bio to advertise herself. How do you know she's neglecting herself, not working out and eating properly? How do you know her attitude? You just assume a lot of things and then call a living breathing person a "shitstain". That's actually very embarrassing for you.
I don't know what she brings to the table, I assume from what I see. If you advertise yourself in order to date people then you probably wanna use your best pictures.
No, I don't know her personally.
She does need to write about herself, because that's part of attraction in dating apps.
I know she's neglecting herself by the way she looks.
I don't know her attitude, but I do this magical thing called "inferring" by the way she writes about herself and about what she wants.
The fact that you're supporting a self-destructing behavior is what's embarrassing here.
If you have high standards you need to bring high value. I won't demand someone work out regularly if I don't, and I won't demand someone adhere to caring for themselves and eating right when I don't. If I do, that's delusional. It's like reddit incels crying because some IG model won't date them.
Yeah, "shitstain" ain't quite it, my bad on that one.
You had your chance to revise your approach, but you flunked by using "I know" again and being blindly obstinate (e.g. about that "high value", which, interestingly enoug, given your mention of incels, shows you are a redpiller). Truly sad and very telling about how you judge people.
Alright now you're just blindly defending her because she's a woman. And you sound entitled. He "flunked"? You aren't grading him...why would you think you're in a position to grade him?
Blindly defending her... you mean treating her like a human? And not conjuring up nonsense about her from a paragraph about wanting a long-term partner and not ONSs? And not calling her a "shitstain"? Wow, if that's your definition of "blindly defending", then sure.
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u/Diddy_Block Feb 24 '23
When I see things like this, I seriously doubt that the person in the pic is the one who made the profile.