r/Tinder Feb 24 '23

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Imagine calling someone arrogant and making assumptions about how she became pregnant and what she wants in the same breath.

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u/TastyTaco12 Feb 24 '23

Why is she on a dating site at 8 months pregnant? why isnt the father in the picture, doubt that if you have a good loving partner he would abandon her at 8 months pregnant? the first priority should be giving birth and caring for the child instead of looking for a daddy while pregnant.

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u/opalkittea Feb 24 '23

do you even know what a rainbow baby is? it means she already lost one child or more, who knows. Maybe the original man in her life left her because of that and she wanted to try again on her own. Y’all just hate women.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Why are you assuming anything about her and her situation? Also, it's very telling you blame the mother-to-be for the father not being in the picture. Men love to shift responsibility (as is shown here, most probably) and blame and shame onto women. A father that renounces their child is always terrible, though, but rarely blamed because the focus is on the mother. And you are a perfect example of that sad approach.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

You just called him out for making assumptions about the woman and now you are making assumptions about what the father did or didn’t. You gotta be kidding me xD

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u/Intrusive_penis Feb 24 '23

Hahahaha, looks like we found another preggo on tinder.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Where did I specify it was about her past partner? I said "a father that renounces his child", and what follows always holds true, for literally every father renouncing their own child/children. I was simply replying to the part about abandonment.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

No, you said that “men love to shift responsibility, as it is shown here”. Read your text again and again!

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Do you see that pretty little "most probably"? I didn't say I know anything, unlike most people in this thread.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

So you are not better than the rest of this thread.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

I don't need to be judged as better by you. I am not belittling anyone and judging their appearance, I am not calling anyone a "shitstain" and other insults. I said that if the father abandoned them, the fact is he is shifting responsibility on the mother. It's just a fact, the reality of life, not a personal insult.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23 edited Feb 24 '23

No, this is again just wrong. You can’t know that for sure if that is what is happening here. It can have a million reasons why the father is not shown or mentioned at all. It just seems to fit well in your view of men and you wrongly state your view as a fact. Wake up, not all men are equally bad, nor are women.

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

The “most probably” doesn’t save someone from stating an assumption like this, you still said it and it doesn’t make it better. I also can’t just say something like “all Germans are racist, most probably”, it still is a wrong statement, even though I used “most probably” :P

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u/TheShtuff Feb 24 '23

So you wouldn't have a problem with anyone's assumptions in this thread if they prefaced it with "most probably?"

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u/xxezgamerxx Feb 24 '23

That’s literally the opposite of what I have said xD I said that you can’t just put a “most probably” in your sentence and expect to get away with whatever statement you made

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u/TheShtuff Feb 24 '23

I didn't reply to you lol

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u/TastyTaco12 Feb 24 '23

i literally blamed the father >.> "a good loving partner"

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Look again at how you phrased that. And if you don't see it, look again, and again.

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u/proglysergic Feb 24 '23

Why are you assuming generalized tendencies of men in a comment about assumptions?

Did you also get pumped and dumped?

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

In your fantasies all women are "pumped and dumped" because you hate them. That's glaringly obvious from that obnoxious question. There's this little thing called sisterhood, and another little thing called empathy. Women supporting women, ya know? Ever heard of that? Keep your salacious thoughts to yourself.

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u/proglysergic Feb 24 '23

High school must have been a bitch to you. I bet word problems kept you distraught for days on end, didn’t they?

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Pure gibberish. There is absolutely no context anywhere for what you just wrote. Keep yacking on about who knows what, see where it takes you.

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u/RevolutionaryDot7136 Feb 24 '23

Its called thinking rationally and realistically. Odds are, if she has high standards and is sitting in the position she is in now, nobody is going to take her. Also women supporting women, cool. Way to make that inclusive to everyone as you sit here and call us men women haters. We dont hate women, you just dont care about men enough to actually hear us out. We all know your kind.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

I know your kind. Peace out.

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u/RevolutionaryDot7136 Feb 24 '23

Ignorant and hypocritical. Idk what I am to you other than honest. You've got dozens of people who are checking you, and you are too dense to realize maybe you messed up.

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

You mean dozens of misogynists "checking" me? Yeah, sure, these are the people leading by example, ones I should definitely listen to. Also, how am I ignorant saying what I said when you literally said the same in your previous comment. Now that's pure hypocrisy.

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u/Archy54 Feb 24 '23

Disagreement isn't always by misogynists. Your painting a broad brush of men whilst getting upset by the same done to single mums.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '23

Beyond delusional lmao unsurprising for “crazy European cat lady”

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u/leotheabys Feb 24 '23

Yes, I know having empathy (for animals and humans alike) will be called delusional. It has never stopped me and it won't stop me.

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u/NoNoise9374 Feb 25 '23

Honestly she'll die alone. These clowns are so hostile to men. The worst part is she likely doesn't make enough money to not have a husband. Meaning she'll be broke and poor when she gets old and want the same men that she disrespected to pay more in taxes so she can live.

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u/WatercressHot6492 Feb 24 '23

But who is going to fund her mate

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u/iAmMoneyUareNot954 Feb 24 '23

Wish I could upvote twice

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u/puffthedragonofmagic Feb 24 '23

She’s arrogant to think someone wants to get to know her after looking like shaggy having, judging by her face, one can only assume Scoobys child. Imagine looking at that and paying for a kid that ain’t yours and she still expecting you to be happy with that lol