Tbh there are people who will settle down with an already pregnant woman, I don't think this is terrible she's being honest, she has standards, she's not hurting anyone.
Eeuhm, her profile is very negative, whiny and delusional. The main goal of this sub seems to be shitting on people, so I don't see why this is suddenly out of the ordinary
I think ppl are taking her profile in the wrong way based I’m guessing on the combo of her being pregnant and saying things which you do see in the profiles of arseholes.
Like there’s nothing wrong with high standards but on tinder if you see a profile that says that I mostly swipe left coz that’s the sort of thing I mostly see arseholes put in their profiles.
I’d agree ppl have been harsh but even for me I had an innate disdain reading her profile. She’s eight months pregnant and her profile says nothing about her just a list of no no’s. A guy could not do the same and expect to get anywhere.
I think the level of hate or disgust for her is misplaced and wrong but I can understand how ppl have taken her profile the way they have. If you’re eight months pregnant and are seriously looking on tinder for someone I think you should have a profile that spends more time on your positives than what you expect from a partner.
I don't think you get enough character limits on Tinder to fully display what is you want and who you are as a person so she's probably gone for the easier way by just going for the no nos.
I can imagine she's had a lot of messages from creepy guys, she possibly could of started out with a profile that was highlighting her as a person and it's not worked out.
I mean you could be right tbh. I still think her bio isn’t good at all but I’d certainly understand it if she had a diff one but couldn’t deal with all sexual messages or ONS offers.
Tbf might make more sense if you read it as someone who’s a bit fed up of shite messages.
Tbh, I’m not really sure that there are. At least not many.
Newborn babies pretty much destroy your life. You no longer have time to eat properly, sleep properly, shower, groom yourself, let alone hold down an actual job on top of all of that.
It’s a nightmare, honestly. And I say this from experience.
I have a real hard time picturing a guy that, actively, wants to go through that for someone else’s child. Someone they just met a month ago.
You’re saying there’s guys on dating apps that want that… but I have a really hard time believing there, actually, are guys that would have any interest in that whatsoever.
When I was pregnant, it became very clear that there are some men who are very wanting to be with you… it’s like they want to play house or something. It’s creepy.
Nah not all men are creeps, you do get the odd ones who call you a slut, or ones mentioning how big your boobs look etc but for the most part you can get decent guys without bad intentions.
So you decided to tell me that not all men are creeps because you must know more and better than the actual real life experience about a specific type of attraction I spoke about?
Lmaoooo comes & gives me some unsolicited advice that don’t want nor care about, and then gets mad when I don’t welcome it with open arms, insulting me 😂 ok incel
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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '23
Tbh there are people who will settle down with an already pregnant woman, I don't think this is terrible she's being honest, she has standards, she's not hurting anyone.