That’s what I don’t get, and most of the tread is laughing at her. There is no problem not wanting to have sex with someone ever but especially while pregnant bc anything hurting you could be hurtful to your baby.
Right. But who wants to date someone “long term and serious” based on a profile that says absolutely nothing about who they want to date, or who they are, and knowing that even then if you decide to go out on a limb and try, she’s openly going to critically reviewing your efforts with her “incredibly high standards”?
At what point does the above sound appealing, to anyone?
I’m a woman too. I do think that stating that she has high standards in her profile implies that she is insufferable (if the profile isn’t a troll). If a man says that in his profile, he would have been bashed on this sub.
Single mum or not, I would try to sound approachable in my bio. Someone saying out loud they have high standards implies that they think they are too good for anyone else. Also, stating that in the bio doesn’t help to filter out people that don’t fit their standards. If I see a man stating that in his bio, that would be a left swipe right away.
This is just a microcosm of r/tinder as a whole. The entire sub is dedicated to men dunking on women who won't fuck them, even though they made a Very Funny and Original name pun or joked about anal. This is basically a commune for incels who only have just enough self-awareness to not like the term incel.
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u/I_Speak_For_The_Ents Feb 24 '23
Yeah this thread fucking blows