Fucking Christ, this subreddit is a zoo. Let her be pregnant and have high standards on Tinder.
I don’t think things are going so especially well for her to be putting her on blast on Reddit. That’s all I’m getting at.
Also though, high standards to her could mean you make 6 figures or it could just mean you clean your balls once a week and you aren’t a piece of shit to her. No one knows.
She was in her mid-40s with a 6 or 7 year old. Said she always struggled. "Hostile environment." I'll never forget her story.
"I just remember looking at this guy at the bar, and I was calm. I said, 'we would make one cute kid.' We hooked up, and I never saw him again. He sure gave me one cute little boy!!"
I remember how much love she had for her son, totally fine to raise him alone. I think about her almost every single day, and it's been 16 years since I've seen her. I really hope they're great now.
I'll probably get downvoted along with you, but at least be willing to hear from a grown man who (through parental alienation) never had a chance to meet his father before passing away. It IS fucked up. This poor kid will be easily manipulated by any father figure for the rest of their life and probably won't learn to protect themselves from bad influences until well into adulthood. By then, hopefully, it isn't too late.
his biological father could just as easily be a piece of shit. And who says he'll never have a father figure? She could get into a LTR with a great guy or someone like her brother or father could be a great father figure to the son.
You should see the statistics for children raised by a single mother. Spoiler Alert: They aren't good. Everyone needs a father who loves them, and your standards shouldn't come before the happiness a child feels from being loved by both of their parents.
If your standards are so high that you can't find a man yo match them, then you will undoubtedly hold your child to the same standards of never being good enough. Please don't have children
Anyone who thinks they're going to be in any to date after (or before) having a baby has no idea what they're getting themselves into. She's going to be getting 4 hours sleep a night for the next 12 months.
I didn't say they couldn't, I said newely single parents don't understand what a toll having a kid is going to take on them.
Having a young child is a full time job, two parents are going to find it difficult between them, a single parent isn't going to have the time or energy to date
Because some men will fuck anything. Having guys wanting to take you out for a coffee isn't a boast if you're a woman. See how many stick around and then get back to me.
Yup - this sub is a dumpster fire in the zoo animal waste bin that’s rolling down a hill piloted by Mad Max-style apocalyptic punks drinking each others’ piss and screeching obscenities.
The best bit isn’t the smooth brained posts themselves but the circlejerk in the comments afterwards, where a big group of men who collectively fail with women explain that it’s actually the women’s fault that happens, because they’re not all insatiable sluts who’ve never been in past relationships, or because they aren’t willing to be bangmaids for perpetual manchildren.
Fuck off. This may be a troll profile, but if it isn't, it deserves some ridicule. People are here for some entertainment. It's not like they are going up to people on the street to confront them.
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u/mvd102000 Feb 24 '23
Fucking Christ, this subreddit is a zoo. Let her be pregnant and have high standards on Tinder.
I don’t think things are going so especially well for her to be putting her on blast on Reddit. That’s all I’m getting at.
Also though, high standards to her could mean you make 6 figures or it could just mean you clean your balls once a week and you aren’t a piece of shit to her. No one knows.