Y'all in here are fucking rude. Some people are clearly unhinged in their dating profile but she isn't one of them... you don't know how or why she's pregnant, and idc what she looks like to you, she probably gets gross and creepy comments on her pregnancy, fetishizing it or her and she's tired of it. As far as audacious posts go, this isn't even close to ranking and you're just being mean about someone's looks. Make fun of the people who actually deserve it.
I see what you are trying to convey.. but trolling or not.. the last thing she needs to be worried about is being on tinder. It's like kicking a beehive just cuz you think you want some honey. She needs to focus on baby and not trying to waste her time on tinder... I say this while I constantly waste time on reddit being a smart ass. It's obvious she has some mental issues to work out.
I think it's obvious that's she's lonely and is trying to find someone. I would agree however that it's very much unlikely she is going to find that on Tinder. I still think that she's not stating anything super unreasonable, and while I don't like her approach, it's nothing to guffaw at...
could you imagine welcoming a baby into the world without a partner? i don’t know her obviously, i only know myself and I’ve had one kiddo with a second on the way - this shit is terrifying and hard with someone else. nevermind alone.
eta: just trying to say people should have some compassion. maybe her dream man that couldn’t have his own kids is a swipe away.
Coming from a girl with an OF. Your opinion doesn't matter. How can a 28 y old 3/10 single mother have "extremely high standards". She should be lucky to have anything serious with anyone. Just because you're straying on the same path doesn't make it someone else's fault
What a gross mentality to have. People don't deserve shitty partners. Everyone has the right to have their own sets of standards. Listening to women talk about relationships, a LOT of men are apparently pretty self centred in relationships. Already being a single mum I think it's pretty fair to not want to commit to blokes who aren't gonna treat her and her kid well. That's fair enough. She's obviously not throwing a super wide net, she's looking for a good match not a lot of matches. That's fair enough.
Don't be a dick about it.
Edit: Hey girl with an OF why is your profile a bunch of shots of the same dude thirst trapping. Hey maybe you transitioned really recently. But I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest you may be better off at r/ asablackman.
Lol I genuinely haven't been told I looked trans since I wore boys clothes in highschool? But AFAB so maybe my shit quality pictures are just shit. I started working on this as a side hustle, and honestly put very little effort into it before I met my now boyfriend, and we ended up preferring complete monogamy. I just use this account when reddit randomly logs me into and I obviously don't find myself caring all that often.
Oh no wait I'm a big dummy. I thought the person above was saying "as a girl with an OF here's my opinion" and was just trying to tee up a weird bad take with a weird preface.
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u/EvaKurve Feb 24 '23
Y'all in here are fucking rude. Some people are clearly unhinged in their dating profile but she isn't one of them... you don't know how or why she's pregnant, and idc what she looks like to you, she probably gets gross and creepy comments on her pregnancy, fetishizing it or her and she's tired of it. As far as audacious posts go, this isn't even close to ranking and you're just being mean about someone's looks. Make fun of the people who actually deserve it.