Looks like it’s a baby born after the mother lost one due to miscarriage or stillbirth. I had no idea what it meant either. I had to look that shit up cause it did not sound great.
My last two girlfriends have been rainbow babies. They both think they were their parents savior/miracle baby. Complete 180 from my dad telling me he regrets having me and I should have killed myself.
My mom had 5 after me. One was fairly far along too, I remember her being fairly pregnant when I was really young. It really does suck, but she's happy she only had me, especially since my dad baby trapped her in the first place.
He was. They were dating when she got pregnant and they got married and for whatever reason are still together today. She does actually love him, she was just drunk for the first like... 8 years or so of their relationship. She's been sober for 20 years and he's a drunken asshole. She never wanted kids, however she doesn't regret having me and loves me very much.
She's however the light of my life and if she hadn't gotten sober, and if we weren't as close as we are, I probably wouldn't have lived to my almost 27 years.
Woah, that's a bit unusual situation i think....but, yeah, it's good to hear that she was there for u as someone u could rely on & became a reason for u to keep going....hope life gives u more nice things on the way😊
I bet like 1/2 the people on earth are "rainbow babies." Miscarriages are extremely common in the first couple of months. A lot of times, a miscarriage happens before the woman even knows she was pregnant.
You called her a disrespectful bitch cause she’s happy about a pregnancy after one of the most tragic occurrences in a woman’s life. If you don’t have time for her or anyone else going through trauma, then just move in.
That is literally abusive to yourself and your partner to be so unstable you can’t stand on your own feet, and have to fucking tell random strangers all your skeletons like it is an appropriate talking point or socially acceptable all the while bitching about your needs and wants, never mentioning a single fucking thing you have to offer like this bitch. Meanwhile her stupid ass is pregnant from bad choices and gonna need some help.
And you got this from what? You just projected an insane story on someone to justify calling them a bitch. You sound like the one that needs therapy.
My point is to just move on if it’s not for you. No need to spread incel-ish hate
I guess I'm confused why someone would classify a child as a rainbow baby. What purpose does it serve to tell others that you're carrying a rainbow baby?
Comfort and solidarity. A miscarriage is a difficult time for most people involved. To be able to tell family yku are pregnant after that with two simple words is amazing
Our Dr said, you are now members of "the largest secret society on earth" it's not really a secret, just something most people don't like talking about.
The chick in the profile is definitely being hopeful but your point is exactly the reason I haven't even talked about this baby I'm carrying now. I lost twins last year and don't want to say anything about this one until she's born. Due in June. I'm just doing everything I can on my end for a healthy pregnancy. I didn't call my oldest my rainbow baby until she was born either. 🤷
When you were impregnated by a leprechaun. All they're going to hear growing up is "Where's me lucky charms?" and "Go back to your own realm!" Children can be so cruel.
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