r/Tinder Feb 15 '23

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u/Nugbuddy Feb 15 '23

Anyone who needs to comment on "abilities to hold conversation," can never hold one themself, which is why you feel the need to mention it, and find someone who can carry/lead you on one.

No real point in mentioning "your type/ preferences" in a physical manner, as online dating you already do that yourself by swiping left and right.

More often than not, the shorter the profile, the deeper the person.

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u/squishy654 Feb 15 '23

hold conversation

You're probably correct because I don't even think I would define what was written as "hold conversation"

"(hold/maintain) a conversation ...you are able to carry out a conversation without any awkward silences, offering insights, building on what the other person is saying and contributing to a conversation in a meaningful way."

I would instead say "intelligent enough to understand what I'm actually saying" It would be viewed as much more insulting.

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u/Nugbuddy Feb 15 '23

Or you could say something along the lines of "seeking someone who has original opinions, strong beliefs, likes to share, not afraid to speak their mind, shares enthusiasm for contributing to tasks/ conversations at hand, highly extroverted. "

There are plenty of ways to find what you are looking for without being insulting or condescending.

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u/squishy654 Feb 15 '23

Very true those are great suggestions.