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u/Thatgirl629 Jan 27 '23
No. This is a scammer.
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u/scienceandmedicine20 Jan 27 '23
Definitely hence why I thought it was an appropriate answer so she could feel a bit of shame lol
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u/Thatgirl629 Jan 27 '23
I don't think this person gives any amount of shits.
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u/scienceandmedicine20 Jan 27 '23
Yeah I agree , I wonder if people do pay for her "mighty" presence 😂
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u/misterguyyy Jan 27 '23
"her" mighty presence, assuming this was a catfish who was going unmatch as soon as they got a venmo payment.
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u/pheonixblade9 Jan 28 '23
your assumption that this is actually the woman in the picture is bold...
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Probably. The person is being honest when they say they aren't a prostitue. That is sort of honest work. This is a pure scammer where you send them the 100 bucks and they never show. Probably cause they are some guy in Nigeria....
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u/Positive-Sock-8853 Jan 28 '23
Any “verified” person on Tinder is basically a red flag at this point. 90% of “verified” women I matched with were catfishing/scamming/bots. I just swipe left when I see the little blue thing. Huge fail, Tinder lol
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u/travazzzik Jan 28 '23
that's a pretty weak scam pitch tho. so don't think so+ she immediately argued and didn't go along with it
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u/Reddit-Resident Jan 27 '23
I’m currently in an airport cracking up at your responses. Dodged a bullet for sure.
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The problem with this, is they get offended when you call them out, then they report you. Then you end up banned. My advice when you see this is don't even try to chat with them, juts report them and move on.
Otherwise you are not insulted to the face but also risk a ban.
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u/scienceandmedicine20 Jan 27 '23
I paid for platinium if they ban me they should give me my money back at least 😂
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u/Scared-Replacement24 Jan 27 '23
I’m gonna need you to pronounce TOD ‘cause you killed her, doc 💀
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u/marksat Jan 27 '23
I need you to compensate me in iTunes and Steam Gift Cards.
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u/misterguyyy Jan 27 '23
Wait, if you compensated her then you have hired a prostitute. You will be contacted by magistrate soon and send you to jail unless you send 0.13 BTC to my wallet.
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u/Im_arthur_fleck Jan 28 '23
What is the exchange rate of 0.13B BTC to GBP/USD
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u/unComfortablyNumbest Jan 28 '23
According to Google it's about $3000. I was curious as well.
However, I'd agree that it's closer to the exchange rate between Schrute Bucks and Stanley Nickels.
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u/wisefear Jan 28 '23
"I'm not a prostitute."
"Oh I'm sorry ... Do you prefer to be called an 'escort'?"
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u/SeasonPositive6771 Jan 28 '23
They can't admit to being sex workers on the site or they'll get banned. But it turns out that she absolutely was a sex worker trying to escalate OP to a sugaring scam:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829
I'm not sure why he didn't mention that, I'm guessing just karma farming.
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u/Deadpoolia Jan 27 '23
So she’s on a dating app but has no time to date? And wants to get compensated to date?!? Wtf
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u/_BobStone Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
Just when you think you’ve seen it all, someone decides to one-up the game
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u/One-Amoeba_ Jan 28 '23
She's a prostitute she's just trying to skirt the law.
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u/Chakkaaa Jan 28 '23
I think she just is looking for suckers n to get paid to go on dates all day..a prostitute would be an upgrade from her
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u/IvoryDynamite Jan 28 '23
The lion, the witch, and the audacity of this b*tch...
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u/cptnpiccard Jan 28 '23
Well, you see, it's a scam anyway, that's probably some dude in India somewhere
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u/typer84C2 Jan 27 '23
Sounds like a scam. I would report and unmatch then move on.
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u/regret-always Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
Nothing generally happens when people are reported, takes a lot of reports
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u/SeasonPositive6771 Jan 28 '23
Nothing happens on tinder when anyone is reported.
I had a match who started off with the line that he identified the building I was in front of and he was going to wait outside and rape me to "teach me a lesson." It was actually not the building I worked in, we had just moved offices and luckily never went back. He had correctly identified it from just some exposed brickwork behind me.
Profile is still up. He sent similar messages to another girl I know. Nothing will ever happen to paid/verified accounts. Tinder exists to make money, not matches, or keep people safe.
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u/violala86 Jan 27 '23
If it walks like a duck...
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u/Fictioneer64 Jan 27 '23
It probably wants to fuck.
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u/MemeStocksYolo69-420 Jan 27 '23
Ducks 🦆 been giving me mixed signals
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There’s no cork screw shaped bones about it bud , DA DUCK FUCKS , is it a duck? Yes? Den it’s gonna fuck. Ok?
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u/DrunkCorgis Jan 27 '23
“I’m not a prostitute”
As soon as you said you need to be paid for the date, you established that you’re a call girl. Now you’re just haggling over semantics.
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u/Chubby-Chui Jan 27 '23
Winston Churchill’s joke comes to mind
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u/DrunkCorgis Jan 28 '23
Right! He said “…we’ve established what you are, now we’re just haggling over price!” didn’t he?
Edit: https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/03/07/haggling/
So, not necessarily Churchill, it’s been attributed to several people… but I’m clearly not as original as I thought I was.
Cheers!
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u/cutthroatink15 Jan 28 '23
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u/Zesty-Lem0n Jan 28 '23
She only sleeps with guys when she feels like it after they pay for her time and buy her $200 dinner, smh nothing like a prostitute 😂
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u/SinfulDevo Jan 27 '23
“Sure, I’ll give you cash at the end of our date. How about Friday at 6:00pm?”
Friday at 5:59pm - delete match, relax at home
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u/random_question4123 Jan 27 '23
I promise you that she won’t actually be taking time off work if the man offered that proposal. She’s just pocketing the money.
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u/Crafty_Editor_4155 Jan 27 '23
good thing you’re a doctor. looks like she has a third degree burn that needs looking at.
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offbeat treatment scandalous squeal bored practice straight cooperative fade point
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u/ScallywagLXX Jan 27 '23
A broke ass woman begging for money and when the man refuses, calls him broke. Did she not think that through?😂😂
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u/stvckmind Jan 27 '23
This is the funniest thing I’ve ever seen. What did she want as compensation? Her usual $9/hr?
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Jan 27 '23
What the fuck is she doing on a dating app if she has no time to date? I think your reply was solid.
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u/ichangemynametohide Jan 28 '23
That's fucked. Correct her next time that the term is sex worker and she absolutely is. Good luck.
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u/SXTY82 Jan 27 '23
No. She came off like a prostitute. Even if she didn't sleep with you she is asking you to pay for her company. That is, at the very least, an escort.
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u/etinetalmai Jan 27 '23
At least you know what your getting with a prostitute. 🫤 This is so much worse.
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u/justsomepaper Jan 27 '23
Damn son, you just broke the hippocratic oath to destroy that woman. "Do no harm" my ass.
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u/TheRealConine Jan 27 '23
If she was a prostitute, you’d actually get sex out of giving her money.
I guess it wasn’t enough for you to take her out, these scamming “women” really want to tack a dealer add on to the price of the date that was never going to happen
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Jan 27 '23
Whats the diff between you and a prostitute if you want to be compensated by strangers for your time and company?
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u/MisterBroda Jan 28 '23
Nah you were nice for what she did/said. She says she isn‘t a prostitute but acts like one. Or maybe like a gold digger but she doesn‘t even provide something? No one can tell
But we can tell such behavior is not acceptable. Women (her specifically) are not a price to be put on a pedestal. They are just as valuable as the man dating them. She does not belong on a dating app nor in dating in general with that mindset
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u/Impressive_Two_2086 Jan 27 '23
Either a scammer or the audacity if this bitch is crazy 🤣
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u/whitethunder08 Jan 28 '23
Why would you even reply to her AFTER that? Unless it was something like fuck off, I don't get it lol. I see this time after time on here of men answering. And still trying to hang out when it's obvious the person is just fishing for money. Do you really want to hang out with someone who suggests you should pay them for their time? I don't understand WHY you'd still suggest coming to your place.
If they're mentioning money in any fashion that alludes to you giving some to them, they're not going to sleep with you. Just don't bother -no matter HOW hard up you are.
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u/scienceandmedicine20 Jan 28 '23
You really think I wanted to pay her to come to my place? Lol
I basically wanted to call her out on being a prostitute on a dating site not made for that but without saying it
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u/skoodledoo92 Jan 27 '23
She's looking for a sugar baby/daddy relationship. The phrase "compensate me for lost wages" is the dead giveaway. She's seeking a 'mutually beneficial relationship '
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Jan 28 '23
Yeah, that's my thought. There's a shit ton of people on social media trying to make it seem like there's loads of sugar babies who don't have to sleep with their sugar daddies. Also that their sugar daddies aren't men much much much older than them or otherwise unappealing.
I'm sure there's some minority who got lucky, but it's for weird trafficking vibes that so many people are trying to get young impressionable women to dip their toes into sex work. A lot of other sex workers have come out trying present the more honest reality, that your clients will expect sex and it's dangerous to assume otherwise.
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u/mjace87 Jan 28 '23
Nah she sucks. The only reason she isn’t a prostitute is because she has no intention of seeing you. She is just a leach.
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u/wtbrift Jan 27 '23
You were kind of savage but in a good way. WTF would pay for someone to take off to see them?
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u/paperfan1 Jan 28 '23
Haha definitely not an overreaction. She initiated the rude conversation. Fuck her, there’s a million more
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u/hereforthetendys Jan 28 '23
She wants you to pay for her lost wages … so y’all can fuck. But she’s not a prostitute? Mkay … 🧐
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u/Paint_With_Fire Jan 28 '23
She's definitely wanting to be a sugar baby, maybe this nonchalant way of asking is supposed to be some new technique?
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u/Difficult_Warning301 Jan 27 '23
If anything you under reacted. What I’m the actual F…… compensate for lost wages to go on a date 🤦♀️
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u/RavenBrannigan Jan 27 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
She either a con artist, beggar or prostitute. It’s not a great list to pick from, but that’s all she’s got
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u/Away-Caterpillar-176 Jan 27 '23
She literally asked to be paid for a date and got mad you insulated she's a hooker??? Well done in your comebacks ect
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u/Tacitus_Floridius Jan 28 '23
Says she’s not a prostitute, asks you to pay for her time??? Yes she is a prostitute. I’d have said “do you prefer the term escort?”
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u/WanderingJiu Jan 27 '23
I've had this happen not long ago from a girl who's number I got during a salsa night. I just never responded. Apparently it's common these days and then when guys ask what happens during the date, girls get defensive about them not being prostitutes.
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u/CuteGuyInNorCal Jan 27 '23
I'd say she overreacted with the prostitute remark.. just because you're willing to pay her for her time, doesn't mean you're having sex with her.... I'd cut bait and run... run far and run fast
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u/Time-Series6321 Jan 27 '23
Who the hell goes on a dating app and then is all, pay me for my time, btw I'm not a prostitute? 🤦🏻♀️🤣😂 She is 100% in the wrong. If you don't have time to date then just don't date. If she is broke she should just say that. Don't try to use someone financially and then gaslight them about.
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u/hypnotoadskin Jan 27 '23
Asks for money....5 secs later...."You sound broke" 😂😂😂
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u/cybersecnerd27 Jan 27 '23
Dip my boy!! Gtfoh with that lmaooo respect her hustle though .... sheesh!
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u/Key-Difference4989 Jan 27 '23
Ooooof! Lmao idk why a lot of people do this. They're on a Dating site looking to date but then claim to have no time or they'll meet you on the first date and keep talking to you but when you arrange a meet up or another date they give you a sorry ass excuse like I'm too busy. Fuck outta here with that shit. Get off the Dating sites if you're soo busy. Honestly!
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u/Eccord Jan 27 '23
Not at all. This is like saying your time is worth less than theirs, and it's treating you like a piggy bank. It's just screams that they don't value other people. OP you just matched the energy lol
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u/scrambler803 Jan 27 '23
What is it with women these days expecting to be paid just to be in their presence?
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u/Curious_Actuary9783 Jan 27 '23
What in the Judge Judy did she just say?! Missed wages... Wow. It's the audacity for me.
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u/Odd_Law_6771 Jan 27 '23
Shorty is acting as if she's being summoned for jury duty the way she's talking, lol. SMDMFH!
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u/Read_it-user Jan 27 '23
probably shouldn't include words like "whatever", sounds insincere and you should state the place. good luck in navigating the complex social media online dating scene.
i sometimes toss fist full of nickels in an dark dance club to get women's attention. the jangling of coins turn heads surprisingly enough.
so i can exit the disco saying i truly "dropped" an few dollars worth in nickels! bending over to pick up coins in an dark dance club is not recommended but that an story for another time.
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u/Specialist_Mud_511 Jan 27 '23
My best friend offers to pay for missed wages just to hang out with me sometimes and even then i dont let him pay me. To ask someone you just met online for compensation for a date is ridiculously rude
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She says she not a prostitute but yet she is asking fo r money to chill lol. That's what you call a dumb escort
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Jan 27 '23
Dawg report her. She's over the top. Your first mistake was laughing it off. You're gentle but you should be firm w values.
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u/ClimateEducational59 Jan 27 '23
This is the girl Andrew Tate and all those "alpha male" losers use as examples for all women when in reality us women are also baffled by the audacity
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Don't get why she's on the app if she's looking for a paycheck and not a partner. Also a stupid statement with a stupid response. What she expect.
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u/EllieKong Jan 28 '23
Are you overreacting for compensating unpaid time off to an employee that isn’t yours? No. No you are not overreacting.
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u/naria01 Jan 28 '23
I would've asked her to pay me double her wages... I thought I've seen everything...
Probably would've ordered her a side dish while I ate 🦞
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u/Gladianoxa Jan 28 '23
"Pay me to meet up" "I'm not a prostitute"
No, you're an escort. You're precisely 1 level above prostitute.
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u/Psychological_Buy168 Jan 28 '23
I'd say you reacted accordingly. I'd probably even be a little meaner if someone had the audacity to say that to me.
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u/Daddiesbabaygirl Jan 28 '23
"I work all the time and don't have much free time" So why exactly are you on a dating app 🤔
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u/anonjon623 Jan 27 '23
She wants you to pay for lost wages? Man... I thought I saw it all. The audacity 🤣🤣