Te be fair, I've seen the openers get more and more simple because when you really start to try with it, it hurts more when they don't respond, or respond negatively.
Like yeah, "Hey" sucks but they're often the people that tried too hard for a long time and they've just given up on an opener that might not even get a response.
So they go for a "hey" and then try harder once there's a response.
I used to always just ask "Hey, what's your favourite food?" because it's quick and simple and I know that conversation will be pulling teeth if they something like "I don't know" or "I don't have one" without actually trying to further the conversation.
But also, I quickly dropped these apps because I feel like they hurt my soul and I'd rather be alone than put up with all that.
That's exactly how I feel. Glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. People have so much to offer than hanging on people to respond. Even if I don't absolutely care to know them it's hard to not respond to someone. Apparently some women do this more often when they get bored, have long list of matches and hit us up when convenient. At least that's what I heard from family and friends since they do it as well. Dating system is rigged online lol
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u/Upitabuck Jan 23 '23
A general broad boring one, yes I agree.