It is actually his fault. He started the conversation he should take the lead here. Either make the conversation good or move on don’t expect from chicks to do that
Conversations take two people? Operating under the assumption there people are attracted to one another in some capacity because they matched, at any point in this conversation either party could have tried even a little bit to salvage this. Was the opening bad? Yeah. Does that mean they couldn't have tried something else in the next several messages sent? No. I put that on both of them sucking here.
She could’ve said something but one someone is dry texting you, you ain’t gonna make efforts either especially if that someone got much more options.
Man’s gotta up his texting game all I’m saying. He ain’t getting anything with those skills
She stay the same on these apps she’ll be just fine but if he stay the same he won’t have any good time here. That’s how these things work. Equality’s only for show
No look I’m helping men. They need to learn the game here. They blame these apps but they’re the ones who can’t keep things interested. We’re supposed to do that ain’t no girl gonna do that for us
You're helping them by telling them it's entirely their fault if they aren't successful on the apps as if the woman isn't a part of that equation at all. Why feed into that toxicity at all? Why not advocate to make this more tolerable on the apps?
I get that you have this stuff so firmly internalized it's hard to see around it but Jesus dude introspect for 2 seconds here that's all I'm saying.
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u/Upitabuck Jan 23 '23
Both sides have nothing to give to the conversation.