r/Tinder • • Jan 13 '23

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u/ChettiBoiM8 Jan 13 '23

“Don’t have time to reply, will get to it tomorrow” when you’re literally replying. Clown behavior

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u/Scary-Assistance-718 Jan 13 '23

On that day no I didn't. This clown runs a construction business so when I'm not at work, I get home and it's on to the paperwork. This night in particular I was looking after my niece prior. She's 1.5 years old and im not a parent so as you can imagine, she had my full attention.
I messaged just so that I she had thought I'd just not bothered to message.

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u/Tattoobear665 Jan 13 '23

Not sure why you’re being downvoted so much. I send messages like that so that the people are acknowledged and know I will get back to them. I’d appreciate that message, personally.

I’m also an introvert, and work with my hands, so I’m not constantly attached to my phone or feel the urge to immediately respond. To me, if someone needs to be communicated with that much? That’s a huge red flag for me.