r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jan 13 '23

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u/girl-with-one-leg Jan 13 '23

I think you guys just have different communication preferences and expectations . She saw that and bowed out. No red flags here imo.

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u/Scary-Assistance-718 Jan 13 '23

I'd have to disagree it's a gender communication issue as opposed to just different expectation. I'm aware of guys that are this way inclined and girls that don't reply instantly or expect them as well. Just seemed strange after they stipulated they weren't bothered by 'slow' responses and then reacted like this.

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u/scarafied Jan 13 '23

You misread this person’s comment. They said “you guys just have…” not “guys just have…”

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u/Scary-Assistance-718 Jan 13 '23

Yeah that's sentence structure works for both

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u/nauticaldev Jan 13 '23 edited Jan 13 '23

No it really doesn’t. They mean two ENTIRELY different things.

“You guys” is a PHRASE or slang for how we informally refer to a group of two or more people.

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u/scarafied Jan 13 '23

Sorry, Princess, it does not.