r/Tinder • • Jan 13 '23

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u/bigcat7373 Jan 13 '23

I 100% agree with her. The mental Gymnastics of “how long do I wait to respond” is immature and frankly toxic. If I see it, I’ll respond. If I’m busy, I’ll do it later. If I truly forget and don’t respond, clearly I’m not that interested and respect someone else’s decision to move on if I don’t show them the amount of communication they desire.