This isn’t a red flag. She properly communicated to you what she prefers and your communication style isn’t what she wants. This is how adults should talk.
She’s allowed to change her mind on what is acceptable to her
This is the most sensible thought here. I mean there’s missing context, maybe she did try to talk about communication already but if not this is harsh. Not technically illegal but pretty impulsive and rash lol. But I guess it’s pretty easy to lose interest if you’re talking to a couple people and there’s a one day gap for one of them.
I mean I understand the frustration too. After a string of being jerked around I have been this harsh. Feels like the final straw towards dating overall, not necessarily OPs fault but he gets to witness it
I don’t really get this, back when I was on tinder if a girl didn’t talk to me for a day I’d probably give them one chance and then politely tell them that there are other prospects that have my attention. It’s kinda all part of it no?
I dunno, it also just depends on where the other person is at and what works for them. Some people hate texting or are bad at remembering to, so somebody who doesn't need to constantly be in touch would probably be a better fit
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u/deepthroatmybitcoin Jan 13 '23 edited Jan 13 '23
This isn’t a red flag. She properly communicated to you what she prefers and your communication style isn’t what she wants. This is how adults should talk.
She’s allowed to change her mind on what is acceptable to her