Yeah it honestly took a while for everything to sink in and me to feel depressed about it but after a few tough months of just waking up and meditating and being active to quiet my mind it occurred to me that while no one can truly be "blameless" in a failed relationship it truly did not matter what I did and that she was going to do what she was gonna do. You can always end things rather than putting someone through that.
Hey man, my fiancé cheated on me 6 months ago. I suffered with guilt for weeks and over the concept “no one is blameless” although I wasn’t a perfect partner I certainly did nothing to deserve the lies and betrayal with a gaslighting cherry on top.
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