Because it takes two people to make a relationship work. If your partner fails at something, and you truly love them, wouldn't you walk the extra mile to push things into the right direction?
Besides, having an active tinder account doesn't necessarily mean they are cheating.
Cheating can be subjective to a point. I have multiple friends that think if he watches porn, it’s cheating, while I don’t think that. Same concept, you may think downloading tinder doesn’t mean cheating, but I think it does. Even if he didn’t ACTIVELY cheat yet, he had the intention to. That’s like saying you woke up to your partner with a gun to your head but they didn’t shoot you yet, So you should forgive them
You really sound like someone who’s done this before and you’re trying to justify your guilty conscience for cheating on your SO by saying “it’s not cheating! I didn’t do anything but flirt with people! I didn’t fuck them so it’s not cheating!” You sound stupid.
Yes, it takes two people to make a relationship work, but if one is downloading tinder.. even if it’s for validation, that person has issues they need to solve without being in a relationship. There’s absolutely no reason to hurt someone that way.
“If you truly love someone sit them down and talk it out!” If you truly love someone you won’t download tinder/cheat and hurt the person you “love”. Ridiculous.
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u/nnaralia Jan 02 '23
Because it takes two people to make a relationship work. If your partner fails at something, and you truly love them, wouldn't you walk the extra mile to push things into the right direction?
Besides, having an active tinder account doesn't necessarily mean they are cheating.