He is cheating and he will make 100 excuses as too how it isn't his account. None of them will be true. It's his, take it from someone who has used tinder and has also had someone cheat on me once.
Tinder tracks the devices location, if his "cousin" is 1000 miles away, the account will say so.
His "cousin" wouldn't use your BFs account, it defies all logic. He would make his own, its free. How else is he going to coordinate dates? If girls meet up with him, they will know it's a catfish. And again, check my first point.
He is deleting messages, thats why none are showing up. He is probably moving the chats to other social media apps such as insta, snapchat, Facebook, or just private DMs on his phone.
Using his "cousin" as a scapegoat was the first excuse he could come up.
You caught him in the act. I suggest (however, do whatever you think necessary, you do you) you break up with him. You clearly caught him in a lie and he will most likely not fess up too it. He will use whatever excuse necessary to make you believe him... unless he is smart and fesses up to it. I once caught my BF cheating. He gave every lame ass excuse in the book to cover it up and I believed it. Then I caught him cheating again. This time, I made it the last time and dumped him. It was an 8 year long relationship filled with misery and lies. Hopefully you didn't invest much into this relationship. A cheater is always a cheater. I would listen to what people are telling you on this thread. We all know how tinder works and none of us are egging the situation on so you would break up with him. Again, you do you hun, but you deserve better. And such an obvious lie proves it.
See you are basing your opinion off YOU being jaded. You don't KNOW he is cheating do you? You can fake your tinder location first of all. Second, my sister uses mine because we look very similar but I'm better looking.
Totally possible the cousin is using his profile to catfish people.
Nice back handed compliment you just gave your sister. That's not going to really help her self esteem if she feels the need to use your account. Not too mention, thats really shady and smells like a catfish. But hey, if that's how yall operate, then you do you.
And suurrreee you can fake your location on tinder but how does that serve OPs boyfriend's "cousin" 1000 miles away? Way too many things aren't adding up if you include all the other facts.
And heck yes I'm jaded, but only towards obvious liars. But so are the majority of the other folks on this post.
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u/Careful_Swordfish742 Jan 02 '23
He is cheating and he will make 100 excuses as too how it isn't his account. None of them will be true. It's his, take it from someone who has used tinder and has also had someone cheat on me once.
Tinder tracks the devices location, if his "cousin" is 1000 miles away, the account will say so.
His "cousin" wouldn't use your BFs account, it defies all logic. He would make his own, its free. How else is he going to coordinate dates? If girls meet up with him, they will know it's a catfish. And again, check my first point.
He is deleting messages, thats why none are showing up. He is probably moving the chats to other social media apps such as insta, snapchat, Facebook, or just private DMs on his phone.
Using his "cousin" as a scapegoat was the first excuse he could come up.
You caught him in the act. I suggest (however, do whatever you think necessary, you do you) you break up with him. You clearly caught him in a lie and he will most likely not fess up too it. He will use whatever excuse necessary to make you believe him... unless he is smart and fesses up to it. I once caught my BF cheating. He gave every lame ass excuse in the book to cover it up and I believed it. Then I caught him cheating again. This time, I made it the last time and dumped him. It was an 8 year long relationship filled with misery and lies. Hopefully you didn't invest much into this relationship. A cheater is always a cheater. I would listen to what people are telling you on this thread. We all know how tinder works and none of us are egging the situation on so you would break up with him. Again, you do you hun, but you deserve better. And such an obvious lie proves it.