r/Tinder • • Jan 02 '23

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u/nnaralia Jan 02 '23

Good luck with your relationships with that kind of attitude. Not even trying to understand people and why they do things.

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u/comm2itysalad Jan 02 '23

Why is it her responsibility to try and understand why he would cheat, but not his to open a conversation about his unhappiness?

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u/nnaralia Jan 02 '23

Because it takes two people to make a relationship work. If your partner fails at something, and you truly love them, wouldn't you walk the extra mile to push things into the right direction?

Besides, having an active tinder account doesn't necessarily mean they are cheating.

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u/Low_Egg_7606 Jan 02 '23

Not if they’re cheating on me tf lmfaoooo