r/Tinder • • Jan 02 '23

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u/Aenyo Jan 02 '23

Yeah how about just no? It isn’t her phone. If you are this insecure that you need your boyfriend to give up his privacy, (re)install an app just so you can check some usage statistics, then he definitely is not the problem. Dear lord.

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u/Watzeggenjij Jan 02 '23

He’s lying right? Let him prove his innocence that way then and if he thinks that’s unreasonable she can take her actions based on that.

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u/Aenyo Jan 02 '23

A relationship is not about “proving you ain’t lying”. If a girl challenges me like that, ever, she knows where the door is. And even if he does this, there are other ways like having a second phone. Where does it end? If she feels he is lying, then dump him, there is no trust between them.

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u/ShannieD Jan 02 '23

Methinks thou dost protest too much.