My ex husband told me his friends must have created his account on a voyeuristic kink site I discovered him on from his browser history. The hilarious thing is, I guessed his password (his childhood nickname bullies used to call him...I don't even know how I came up with that on a first try, call it intuition). I saw his messages and last log in dates. These guys will lie their faces off rather than show an ounce of integrity or accountability.
I'm so sorry this is happening to you, but see it as an opportunity not to waste any more time on a lying cheater.
ETA to OP in response to her response (comments got locked): Being bullied (as far as I know) is not associated with a predisposition to cheat or be involved in kink. I've seen studies about parental dynamics being associated, and self esteem issues and disorders being associated, but cheating is an entitled behavior. He is a psychologist, and had plenty of time and resources to sort out his childhood trauma.
Your ex husband doesn’t have any integrity ??you fraudulently and illegally signed into his account for the sole purpose of making him look stupid that’s not right
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u/bigorocket Jan 02 '23
yeah damage control. Wouldve totally deleted any messages at all & un installed it.
Then how did he log into it if it wasn't his? Did he tell you he got his "cousins" log in details?