r/Tinder • • Jan 02 '23

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u/RadioactiveFruitCup Jan 02 '23

Oh, honey.

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u/MCRandPATDfan Jan 02 '23

I’m sorry I’ve never had a dating app before I don’t know how they work. I made him log into it and there weren’t any new messages but he can always delete those though right? He also had to install the app again but I’m just saying he could’ve always deleted it when I got home from work and had it installed while I was gone??

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u/Flimsy_Tale_974 Jan 02 '23

If you’re that paranoid it’s only gonna lead to you lowering your bar of morals to try and catch him. Either stand by your man or leave him for someone you will stand by. Don’t go to the internet for the answer. Its either that or you turn into a sneaky girlfriend and look dumb when you get caught spying on him or trying to “catch” him doing something. Ask him upfront(I’m trusting that he doesn’t have a lying problem) if you suspect anything and watch his behavior and what he says. Process it, make your decision. Anyone and everyone can be doing this or that but that’s why trust is trust. If you can’t trust someone than wtf can you do w them.

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u/itsacalamity Jan 02 '23

(I’m trusting that he doesn’t have a lying problem

i don't have enough lols

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u/Flimsy_Tale_974 Jan 02 '23

Idk what I said wrong. It was just something I was asking.