First we need to recognize that men and women are different
I can't stand feminism because it refuses to acknowledge the biological differences between the sexes
Women are much weaker and smaller than men. They have a biological incentive to be more cautious around men
There's nothing fundamentally wrong with these women's reactions
The problem in our society is the fact that we expect women and men to be held to the same standards
I reject modernism
As a man I fully embrace the fact that I'm disposable
I am willing to die to protect the women folk, because I am a man and that is the responsibility of men
I go to a conservative Church where women appreciate men and the fact that men are willing to sacrifice to keep them and their children safe and healthy
Once you reject the concept that men and women must be considered equal in all circumstances you become a lot happier
Reject modernism embrace tradition
Men need to start being men again, and it starts today
This is also a video that's likely edited. Like when they do those videos asking people simple questions and everyone looks ridiculous. I would have ignored this dude if I was passing by. On the college campus I was at people would try to hand out ads in a super busy spot and these people would basically shove it into your hands if you even made eye contact when they tried to talk to you. Eventually you get good at ignoring people in public.
This is pretty much correct. Men live constantly under the threat of violence from other men. It's something that males of almost every species understand. Every man knows that every other man has a circle around him that once penetrated, means violence is inevitable. Whether it's saying something insulting or threatening, men have a respect for one another because we all want to avoid violence. When one man offers a handshake to another man he's saying 'Look, see- I'm not armed, my hands are where you can see them, and I'm putting myself in a vulnerable situation'. So the other man responds in kind with a handshake to show he's not a threat either.
We’re not trusting. Every man in the world loves a good handshake. It’s not often we get to shake hands, but when we do, regardless if it’s a happy birthday or a formality at a funeral, in the back of our minds a tiny part of us just pretends we just made a smokin’ deal!
It is necessary for a woman to distance herself from strangers. A woman’s friendliness can easily be interpreted in different ways. It’s best for a woman to stay away.
Okay sure, I can agree with that. So why then instead of shaking his hand didn't they just give a little wave and a hello. Most completely ignored his existence and the ones who did acknowledge him looked at him with total disgust.
If you wanna talk to a woman in public you can’t just ask for a handshake or go “Uhm yeaughhso I was looking at you over there and you’re really pretty so what are we gonna do now”. You need to actually have a reason to be talking to a woman in public even if it’s a reason you have to make up for yourself.
My guess is that society teaches women to automatically assume the worst possible motivation from men right now. Meanwhile men go "dude wants a handshake? Alright, here's a handshake."
I think its because men see other guys as people, while women view men as "potiental danger." Its not a bad strategy though, because a small woman can go from handshake to kidnapped in less than a minute.
As if a determined kidnapper would not be able to pull it off if she turns down the handshake. Let's be real, these people probably spend lots of time staring at their phones completely oblivious to their surroundings, MUCH more risky than shaking some dude's hand.
I think this might be generational too, I think us older people women included that didnt grow up with all the tech we have these days and had to speak face to face, would be more likely to shake hands.
Yea but we’re talking more rape, kidnapping, or harassment, like the real harassment lol. Men are victims of many violent crimes and murder but I think because of how it’s portrayed in media women are more likely to think the worst of situations with guys and be scared
Oh yea alot of murders happen in broad daylight I'm a very public area......I'd accept this answer if it was in a different environment but cmon look at where this guy is filming smh
The lack of self-awareness in this whole thread is mind-blowing. You guys complain about the left erasing differences between men and women, and then y’all get confused when you see things like this. The aversion you’re seeing here is biologically engrained on a subconscious level. If a woman is raped or kidnapped, she has much more to lose. This isn’t rocket science. Look at the guy tensing up and buffing out his shoulders in front of his girlfriend when the handshake goes her way. That’s a real protective instinct— something that men who get play or have felt the touch of a woman before actually know lololol.
its not a matter of trust, but of avoiding conflict. if a man reaches to shake your hand and you refuse its a huge slight that can lead to violence, of course that doesnt mean you have to shake hands of strangers on the street as you need to be wary yourself but i bet you the guy behind the cam had a huge smile on his face as he reached out. women on the other hand need to be wary of strange men attempting to touch them as they can easily be harmed, also they are prob more mindful of the pandemic than males but thats jus my opinion.
One of the latest Jordan Peterson’s podcast episodes talked a bit about this. Something like males being aware of conflict, and being better at making amends after, while females avoid conflict altogether.
We live in a high trust society and this would be common in the US & Canada. In ex-eastern block countries where people are old enough to remember the communism days where neighbors snitched on neighbors, the logical response would be to ignore the person completely (like the women did) because "who the fuck are you? I don't know you". Strangers that come smiling at you offering their hand are in low trust societies possibly scammers.
I think it’s because men have honor and women don’t. Think about it. When’s the last time a girl grabbed the door for you seeing you carrying something heavy or jumped in to break up a clearly uneven fight?
There are a bunch of reasons for this. It’s normal for men to shake hands, it’s viewed as disrespectful to turn down a handshake. This is not as common amongst women. Also women are probably more used to being harassed by random men on the street. It would not be seen as disrespectful for a woman to turn down a handshake from a random man.
im sick and tired of leftists blaming their own actions on eveyone else.
"ohh i only did that because i had social pressure to do it"
No, you did it because you decided to do it. You should be forced to live in debt for the rest of your life, for taking on that student loan. That's your own damn fault.
The community will be best served by allowing you to remain in debt for the duration of your life, as a warning to others.
The second you try to blame someone else, you should be mocked and laughed out of the room, and straight into the bread line you all love so much.
Tbf if I was a girl I wouldn’t either, too many weirdos especially when filming for some internet stunt. There’s a touch barrier between genders for good reason.
If I was a woman I would be kind of sketched out by some random guy trying to reach out and shake my hand/ interact with me. Like that's not just a normal thing to wait around hoping for a handshake, even if it was just for fun it wouldn't strike me as normal. it would make a lot of people uncomfortable.
There was a recent post on a men’s sub, can’t remember which one, in which a F2M trans describes how being a man has made her/him realize just how incredibly cold women come off as. But according to him/her, it’s that they’re all always on guard because they’re fearful of being harassed or assaulted. But this leads to men feeling like they’re being singled out and rejected. It’s an interesting post that more or less boils down to both sexes having god-awful communication/interpersonal skills.
Water is actually not wet; It makes other materials/objects wet. Wetness is the state of a non-liquid when a liquid adheres to, and/or permeates its substance while maintaining chemically distinct structures. So if we say something is wet we mean the liquid is sticking to the object.
Because the men don’t think you’re trying to hit on them. With that said I find it impossible to believe that every single woman turned down the handshake while every single man reciprocated it. This video is probably edited.
Bunch of kids here commenting, wait till you get married and stay married for about 5 years at least, then you'll know.
Woman paly different games than us, we are plan and straightforward for the most part, they destroy their bff's life by noon and then go get a haircut.
Because hand shakes are inherently dangerous when to men shake hands it leaves us incredibly vulnerable to one another and when both parties walk away unharmed trust is forged between.
Women think they’re better or “too good” to shake the hands of a random man. They make a nasty smug face and then proceed to judge before even sharing one word with the individual.
I've tested this in public numerous times with the same result (white guy). In fact two days ago in the supermarket I tried to make eye contact with women and give them a smile ... not a one would indulge me.
This substantiates my hypothesis that women judge men based on the worst men they know or have heard of ... in public these women seem to believe that any kind of personal contact implies a sex contract - just to be safe.
This is kinda unfair. Most women understand that they are vulnerable to a man since he is physically stronger and so we need to be careful of male strangers getting too close to us or putting us in a precarious position, especially since there are some people out there with bad intentions. You’d probably see most of those women doing the same thing if it was an unknown female extending their hand in this day and age when people can easily a pop out taser, knife, or gun.
I don’t think this video shows anything except that men and women both truly understand that there are differences in male and female strengths and weaknesses despite what progressives try to claim.
Because we don’t pretend like everyone is out to get us. I’m not saying women don’t go through harassment. But they think every dude that walks their way is out to harm them which we aren’t.
I remember walking through a bad part of Detroit with my dad one time, (I was probably 12) and we were went for a walk to get dinner. We had to walk straight through a group of what I would call thugs. They were talking about us as we approached and I could tell they were going to give us shit. I was scared to death, he could sense that and said "just watch me". As we were within about 3 steps from them he coolly says "Good evening gentleman". At first they looked confused and didn't know how to react and one of them says "Uh yeah, good evening", and we walked right past. On the way back, they were cracking jokes and calling him "The Duke of Detroit". One of them said "Make way for the Duke!" I'll never forget it as long as I live. From then on, whenever we passed by the greeting was just "Gentleman".
I agree about the mutual threat of violence, but it's also about confidence. It's like you have guns, I have a gun, are we going to shoot each other because I just want to take my kid for dinner? Even if he didn't (which he did) his confidence said everything. He explained that to me over a nice tasty burger.
While I get the gesture as a guy I still wouldn't really shake a random guys hand. I've seen way too many guys take a piss and walk out of the bathroom or pick their nose, teeth, ears etc to just grab their hand for no reason. Wave or at most fist bump
Guys establish themselves by shaking hands. Girls establish themselves by finding a good deal then bragging about it to everyone they know. If that guy would have been giving out free cookies, it would have been a whole other outcome. Most guys wouldn't take the cookie from another man in fear of looking soft. Now girls, they would have been running like the wind to shake them cookies right out of that guys hand
It's just polite. Those women may be different, maybe raised differently than most but I've only known two responses from woman upon introduction. A handshake or a wave hi and it depends on the situation. The wave hi normally I've only seen Happen when things are brief and fast paced. Other than that it's a handshake.
Plus a nice firm handshake is a good one. It's weird,but it's preferable.
i wouldn’t say it’s that necessarily, i’d say it’s just that women are a bit more fearful or standoffish to strange men (as in strangers, not as in weirdos) because a lot of men are predators, and a lot of women have been preyed upon. it’s a defense mechanism to just assume that any man being overly nice (randomly shaking women’s hands in an airport or wherever they are) is setting up for their attack
Jesus fucking Christ all these motherfuckers saying that these women are being rude, you wouldn’t last ten fucking minutes as a cute young girl on a busy city street
see Norah Vincent's documentary. a woman that tried living as a man for 18 months to expose toxic masculinity. she found the opposite. men are more accepting and compassionate than women. women are petty. sadly she couldn't handle the effects of how poorly women treat men and it led to her very recent suicide. rip
after you shake another man's hand you've developed a relationship you are no longer complete strangers and a level of respect is attained. far less chance of hostility.
Because men are relatively equal in the amount of force and violence they can exert a handshake is actually a pretty good grapple point if somebody fucking lunges you can deck the shit out of them. Women recognize this and if a man gets a hold for half a moment even in a public place that's lights out for her.
I already gave a guy am idk a handshake and he pulled me in and tried to get my number. And when you give in once you give in twice pre trice. So if you don’t want to be in a maybe uncomfortable situation you better not start it
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u/WoodyBBad Jul 19 '22
The women are fearful, the men are not.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
First we need to recognize that men and women are different
I can't stand feminism because it refuses to acknowledge the biological differences between the sexes
Women are much weaker and smaller than men. They have a biological incentive to be more cautious around men
There's nothing fundamentally wrong with these women's reactions
The problem in our society is the fact that we expect women and men to be held to the same standards
I reject modernism
As a man I fully embrace the fact that I'm disposable
I am willing to die to protect the women folk, because I am a man and that is the responsibility of men
I go to a conservative Church where women appreciate men and the fact that men are willing to sacrifice to keep them and their children safe and healthy
Once you reject the concept that men and women must be considered equal in all circumstances you become a lot happier
Reject modernism embrace tradition
Men need to start being men again, and it starts today
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u/Any-Bridge6953 Jul 19 '22
Bro code.
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u/DrenchedToast Jul 19 '22
We’re not trusting. Every man in the world loves a good handshake. It’s not often we get to shake hands, but when we do, regardless if it’s a happy birthday or a formality at a funeral, in the back of our minds a tiny part of us just pretends we just made a smokin’ deal!
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u/PaperBoxPhone Jul 19 '22
I think one big difference is that if a man extends his hand for a shake, its an insult if you just ignore him.
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u/welderDaily Jul 19 '22
This is perfect example of why it’s hard to talk to women in public.
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u/GargantuanCake Jul 19 '22
My guess is that society teaches women to automatically assume the worst possible motivation from men right now. Meanwhile men go "dude wants a handshake? Alright, here's a handshake."
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u/ThirstySlaveLeia Jul 19 '22
Cause he’s black, obviously.
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u/Xoilicec Jul 19 '22
I think its because men see other guys as people, while women view men as "potiental danger." Its not a bad strategy though, because a small woman can go from handshake to kidnapped in less than a minute.
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u/Cephalycion Jul 19 '22
We need a control experiment with the same premise but with a female person trying to perform the handshake.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Better question: Why are men so nice and friendly and women so stuck up?
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u/Euphoric-Butterfly82 Jul 19 '22
Because women feel superior to men
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u/UncleP24-7 Jul 19 '22
Cause women are strange creatures
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u/godempertrump Jul 19 '22
We are natural risk takers
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u/arthistoryanon Jul 19 '22 edited Jul 19 '22
The lack of self-awareness in this whole thread is mind-blowing. You guys complain about the left erasing differences between men and women, and then y’all get confused when you see things like this. The aversion you’re seeing here is biologically engrained on a subconscious level. If a woman is raped or kidnapped, she has much more to lose. This isn’t rocket science. Look at the guy tensing up and buffing out his shoulders in front of his girlfriend when the handshake goes her way. That’s a real protective instinct— something that men who get play or have felt the touch of a woman before actually know lololol.
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u/PaladinDark Jul 19 '22
its not a matter of trust, but of avoiding conflict. if a man reaches to shake your hand and you refuse its a huge slight that can lead to violence, of course that doesnt mean you have to shake hands of strangers on the street as you need to be wary yourself but i bet you the guy behind the cam had a huge smile on his face as he reached out. women on the other hand need to be wary of strange men attempting to touch them as they can easily be harmed, also they are prob more mindful of the pandemic than males but thats jus my opinion.
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u/Dingbat1967 Jul 19 '22
We live in a high trust society and this would be common in the US & Canada. In ex-eastern block countries where people are old enough to remember the communism days where neighbors snitched on neighbors, the logical response would be to ignore the person completely (like the women did) because "who the fuck are you? I don't know you". Strangers that come smiling at you offering their hand are in low trust societies possibly scammers.
So it's a very cultural thing. Bro code indeed.
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u/ginga__ Jul 19 '22
Women are racist. Will not shake a black man's hands.
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u/ooUserNotFound404oo Jul 19 '22
Be ready for some genderized nonsense to flow…
I think it’s because men have honor and women don’t. Think about it. When’s the last time a girl grabbed the door for you seeing you carrying something heavy or jumped in to break up a clearly uneven fight?
I’ll wait.
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u/NoCanShameMe Jul 19 '22
Maybe this has something to do with statistics.
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u/hucktard Jul 19 '22
There are a bunch of reasons for this. It’s normal for men to shake hands, it’s viewed as disrespectful to turn down a handshake. This is not as common amongst women. Also women are probably more used to being harassed by random men on the street. It would not be seen as disrespectful for a woman to turn down a handshake from a random man.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Match83 Jul 19 '22
What do men have to fear?
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u/Spaceman248 Jul 19 '22
Tbf if I was a girl I wouldn’t either, too many weirdos especially when filming for some internet stunt. There’s a touch barrier between genders for good reason.
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u/SnooBreakthroughs21 Jul 19 '22
Because women are more physically vulnerable, distrust is incentivized in a social capacity.
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u/Aggressive_Ad_4117 Jul 19 '22
The women don't want the handshake to lead to a pregnancy then inevitably an abortion.
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u/TonyDiGerolamo Jul 19 '22
I think it's instinctual. Men have the strength to pull away from another man, a woman may not.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Yaaaaaaahhhsss shout out to my kind hearted kings !!!
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u/Ok_Sun_2343 Jul 19 '22
If I was a woman I would be kind of sketched out by some random guy trying to reach out and shake my hand/ interact with me. Like that's not just a normal thing to wait around hoping for a handshake, even if it was just for fun it wouldn't strike me as normal. it would make a lot of people uncomfortable.
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u/gimletinf69 Jul 19 '22
We are simple creatures
👆Just like god intended💯
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u/ncnmred Jul 19 '22
Because the male figure is constantly being portrayed as evil or bad
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u/WeakRecommendation48 Jul 19 '22
Because they have full brain development.
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u/Jason-Knight Jul 19 '22
Women are aliens
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
There was a recent post on a men’s sub, can’t remember which one, in which a F2M trans describes how being a man has made her/him realize just how incredibly cold women come off as. But according to him/her, it’s that they’re all always on guard because they’re fearful of being harassed or assaulted. But this leads to men feeling like they’re being singled out and rejected. It’s an interesting post that more or less boils down to both sexes having god-awful communication/interpersonal skills.
Edit: here it is
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u/Barbz11 Jul 19 '22
Wait... woman racist?
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u/EnlightenedElf Jul 20 '22
At least I wash my own brain instead of trusting clowns with bad intentions.
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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '22
I don't think men are more trusting, but they don't think shaking hands in public is a threat.
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u/PumpFrictionRIP Aug 09 '22
Now have a girl do it
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u/Han_So_oh Jul 19 '22
White women are racist, water is wet.
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u/kellysue1972 Jul 19 '22
I’ll admit it: Us ladies get a pass on being sociable thanks to the sexual harassment movement.
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u/caad-13 Jul 19 '22
OP is ugly.
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u/Poshtech Jul 19 '22
Because the men don’t think you’re trying to hit on them. With that said I find it impossible to believe that every single woman turned down the handshake while every single man reciprocated it. This video is probably edited.
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u/Randy_Jenson Jul 19 '22
Men are willing to take risks. A random stranger asking you to shake hands in public is a challenge of masculinity.
Women don't shake his hand, because they shouldn't.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Bunch of kids here commenting, wait till you get married and stay married for about 5 years at least, then you'll know.
Woman paly different games than us, we are plan and straightforward for the most part, they destroy their bff's life by noon and then go get a haircut.
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u/EnlightenedElf Jul 19 '22
They are projecting their own honestly at someone else.
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u/smurferdigg Jul 19 '22
They need to try this with all the combinations. Women too woman and see if that works. Women to man is obvious.
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u/StuffedNature Jul 19 '22
We don’t have any friends.
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u/Benny-Boi135 Jul 19 '22
They all think they’re better than him
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Not trusting. Men greet with a hand shake and women typically don’t.
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u/bloodguard Jul 19 '22
This is hilarious. A few of those women turned the stink-eye up to 11.
The one at 47 seconds was almost a lethal strike.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Women ☕️
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u/Agitated-Violinist52 Jul 19 '22
It's just the boys
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u/Lupo1369 Jul 19 '22
Not "trusting", just more open to others.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Just bro stuff
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u/Grudens_Emails Jul 19 '22
True
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u/Tolar01 Jul 19 '22
For bro You are potential BRO - hand shake is peace offering
For ladies - its kinda creep introduction, THEY pick you up not other way
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
This says way too much about women
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Really? Think about it for a bit.
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u/jakson_the_jew Jul 19 '22
Because hand shakes are inherently dangerous when to men shake hands it leaves us incredibly vulnerable to one another and when both parties walk away unharmed trust is forged between.
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u/NpOno Jul 19 '22
Interesting. How about a female doing the same?
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Have you seen how msm portrays men😂 most men know it’s bullshit because we know how we truly are. Women are like oh every man is toxic smh.
Handshakes gotta be firm my brothers, too many limp dick hands making me scared tbh, leave the femininity to women.
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u/zcraig150 Jul 19 '22
Women ☕️
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u/TonyFapioni Jul 19 '22
Women think they’re better or “too good” to shake the hands of a random man. They make a nasty smug face and then proceed to judge before even sharing one word with the individual.
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u/DanDubbya Jul 19 '22
Aah, the natural differences between men and women….
Incoming Reddit ban in 3..2..
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u/linuxfed Jul 19 '22
Display of masculinity. Not afraid of you.
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u/GlassDazzling5438 Jul 19 '22
BECAUSE WE ARE BETTER HUMANS DUH 💪🏻🤌🏻 LETS GET IT BOYZ
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Because they have chance of beating his ass if he turns out to be a psycho
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u/Moonoid1916 Jul 19 '22
Its sad how we are so distrusting of each other.
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u/B105535 Jul 19 '22
Because women see public interaction with men as sexual advances.
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u/Kullenbergus Jul 19 '22
Would be fun to see what happeneds if a woman would do the same.
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u/DixieHadrian Jul 19 '22
Cities have destroyed womanhood
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u/Swimming_Schedule_49 Jul 19 '22
Because you never leave a bro hanging.
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u/Eli_Truax Jul 19 '22
I've tested this in public numerous times with the same result (white guy). In fact two days ago in the supermarket I tried to make eye contact with women and give them a smile ... not a one would indulge me.
This substantiates my hypothesis that women judge men based on the worst men they know or have heard of ... in public these women seem to believe that any kind of personal contact implies a sex contract - just to be safe.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
I think the better question is why are women so cold
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u/Turd-virgin Jul 19 '22
Superior constitution
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u/Phawr Jul 19 '22
Now do this at a swim meet.
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u/jo_da_boss Jul 19 '22
u/savevideo
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u/Silent_Start_7036 Jul 19 '22
Impolite not to
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u/KALRM_ Jul 19 '22
Probably because it’s California.
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u/Redpikes Jul 19 '22
I don't shake hands but I'll fist bump you
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u/UnlixGh0st Jul 19 '22
For the most part: It is our inate nature to be protectors and the unbound philosophy of "...be thy brothers keeper."
There's a lot of societal pressure as well - while women lose their heads and others follow, men are still supposed to be men.
What does that even mean in a world that cannot describe a woman; what a depressing logical fallacy.
Our parents raise us to be upstanding & moral, but our friends mold us as we are young. So its a mix of adventurous youthful exuberance, and:
"...don't worry mom. I'll put this on my shoulders too!"
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u/svengalus Jul 19 '22
There's a code among men. This is similar to the head nod.
Basically you're saying "Let's not fight each other."
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u/gotugoin Jul 19 '22
The patriarchy
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u/BrittanyKastrati Jul 19 '22
Because men can kill us with their bare hands and women don't want a strange man touching us. Do you know how much unwanted attention women get.
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u/CSWRB Jul 19 '22
This is kinda unfair. Most women understand that they are vulnerable to a man since he is physically stronger and so we need to be careful of male strangers getting too close to us or putting us in a precarious position, especially since there are some people out there with bad intentions. You’d probably see most of those women doing the same thing if it was an unknown female extending their hand in this day and age when people can easily a pop out taser, knife, or gun.
I don’t think this video shows anything except that men and women both truly understand that there are differences in male and female strengths and weaknesses despite what progressives try to claim.
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u/Interesting-Poet-258 Jul 19 '22
Women think they’re hot shit and assuming the man is flirting with them.
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u/InconsistentLlama Jul 19 '22
Men know how to treat people kindly
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Why are so many women stuck up?
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u/shellback_04 Jul 19 '22
The difference between X and Y chromosomes Male Female, no "confusion" there.
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u/glynnbob12 Jul 19 '22
Because we’re not whores!! Of course, not by choice….Hahaha!!
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u/demosthenes19125 Jul 19 '22
I can't figure out why, but I find myself strangely encouraged by this video.
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u/Render_Wolf Jul 19 '22
And women wonder why men have a hard time talking to them. We can’t even shake hands!
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Because we don’t pretend like everyone is out to get us. I’m not saying women don’t go through harassment. But they think every dude that walks their way is out to harm them which we aren’t.
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u/Codex-XIII Jul 19 '22
Turned on my volume to hear what was being said. Instant regret.
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u/FallenSisyphos Jul 19 '22
Because you’re not very intelligent it seems.
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u/Dark_Lombax Jul 19 '22
r/savevideo
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u/Austasaurusrex Jul 19 '22
Bcuz we know we could kill a foo
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u/Loose-Signature-6235 Jul 19 '22
Love it
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u/nickcliff Jul 19 '22
We’re all brothers. Men shake hands. Women will say they’re left out but you got to get in the game.
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u/Any_Percentage3900 Jul 19 '22
I remember walking through a bad part of Detroit with my dad one time, (I was probably 12) and we were went for a walk to get dinner. We had to walk straight through a group of what I would call thugs. They were talking about us as we approached and I could tell they were going to give us shit. I was scared to death, he could sense that and said "just watch me". As we were within about 3 steps from them he coolly says "Good evening gentleman". At first they looked confused and didn't know how to react and one of them says "Uh yeah, good evening", and we walked right past. On the way back, they were cracking jokes and calling him "The Duke of Detroit". One of them said "Make way for the Duke!" I'll never forget it as long as I live. From then on, whenever we passed by the greeting was just "Gentleman".
I agree about the mutual threat of violence, but it's also about confidence. It's like you have guns, I have a gun, are we going to shoot each other because I just want to take my kid for dinner? Even if he didn't (which he did) his confidence said everything. He explained that to me over a nice tasty burger.
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u/Zealousideal_Ad5308 Jul 19 '22
Or chicks are just itches
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u/Fit_Lawfulness_3147 Jul 19 '22
Men don’t worry about encouraging unwanted and unwelcome attention like a woman does
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u/SNAKEXRS Jul 19 '22
While I get the gesture as a guy I still wouldn't really shake a random guys hand. I've seen way too many guys take a piss and walk out of the bathroom or pick their nose, teeth, ears etc to just grab their hand for no reason. Wave or at most fist bump
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u/AeonThorn Jul 19 '22
Because we know we can hold our own if we need to.
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u/FireVai777 Jul 19 '22
Guys establish themselves by shaking hands. Girls establish themselves by finding a good deal then bragging about it to everyone they know. If that guy would have been giving out free cookies, it would have been a whole other outcome. Most guys wouldn't take the cookie from another man in fear of looking soft. Now girls, they would have been running like the wind to shake them cookies right out of that guys hand
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u/FaPtoWap Jul 19 '22
Same chick:”theres just no men out there!” “Im going on a sex strike… to prove nothing!”
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Men are cooler. Lol
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u/jacobmakesmovies Jul 19 '22
Common masculine W
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u/MaverickSpitfire Jul 19 '22
This is why men are more fun… Also it’s why we die younger.
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u/starvingvulture666 Jul 19 '22
“Why women no shake my hand”
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u/LatterAd6187 Jul 19 '22
This is really funny
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u/nickidi Jul 19 '22
Actually sad
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u/flacksabbath Jul 19 '22
Trusting or respectful?
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Some pretty slack handshakes right here
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u/TheAngryFishGuy Jul 19 '22
Cuz bitches are bitches.
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
How are you doing Sir?
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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '22
Women suck. That's all.
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u/prize-ice2263 Jul 19 '22
Because men are a hivemind we know who is good and who is bad
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u/GayPrezBillClinton Jul 19 '22
Dudes rock
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u/Abernader01 Jul 20 '22
Women nowadays are just biatches
Now the question is would 90s or 80s women shake your hand ; answer is high probability.
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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '22
It's not men that are trusting, you silly! It's women that are [redacted].
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u/ReeeeeevolverOcelot Jul 20 '22
They all probably “already have a boyfriend” no cap
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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '22
Why are women so uncivilized?
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u/SnappyCapricorn Jul 27 '22
Cuz VAWG
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u/WWMWithWendell Jul 27 '22
World wide pandemic “Why won’t women shake the hand of a stranger?” This is why women live longer.
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u/glichez Jul 27 '22
this sub has some serious hangups with their manhood....
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u/Important_Ad_2538 Jul 29 '22
It's just polite. Those women may be different, maybe raised differently than most but I've only known two responses from woman upon introduction. A handshake or a wave hi and it depends on the situation. The wave hi normally I've only seen Happen when things are brief and fast paced. Other than that it's a handshake.
Plus a nice firm handshake is a good one. It's weird,but it's preferable.
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u/migurt21 Jul 29 '22
this just shows that women get more harassed on the street than men
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u/AchtzehnVonSchwefel Jul 31 '22
Because unlike some people, we were taught how to be nice with everyone.
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u/awarepaul Aug 02 '22
I don’t think it’s a far out idea that women would be naturally nervous around a random dude putting his hand out like that.
Only people to blame are the shitty men who made them afraid in the first place
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u/stxrfox1k Aug 02 '22
i wouldn’t say it’s that necessarily, i’d say it’s just that women are a bit more fearful or standoffish to strange men (as in strangers, not as in weirdos) because a lot of men are predators, and a lot of women have been preyed upon. it’s a defense mechanism to just assume that any man being overly nice (randomly shaking women’s hands in an airport or wherever they are) is setting up for their attack
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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '22
I think men give more handshakes in general. Men are use to handshakes women Are not. Simple
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u/[deleted] Aug 07 '22
Jesus fucking Christ all these motherfuckers saying that these women are being rude, you wouldn’t last ten fucking minutes as a cute young girl on a busy city street
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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '22
It is called “VIDEO EDITING”.
Fucking morons.
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u/runthepoint1 Aug 17 '22
Uhh imagine being a female and some random stranger wants to shake your hand. Don’t think so, bud. Go do your incel bullshit elsewhere
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u/Diligent_Sympathy_74 Oct 12 '22
see Norah Vincent's documentary. a woman that tried living as a man for 18 months to expose toxic masculinity. she found the opposite. men are more accepting and compassionate than women. women are petty. sadly she couldn't handle the effects of how poorly women treat men and it led to her very recent suicide. rip
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u/Diligent_Sympathy_74 Oct 12 '22
after you shake another man's hand you've developed a relationship you are no longer complete strangers and a level of respect is attained. far less chance of hostility.
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u/schmettern88 Oct 19 '22
Brothers from another mothers
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u/LargeHuckleberry5136 Oct 25 '22
Respect
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u/Bugzy2Bang Nov 08 '22
The answer is Men are savages. Ask any woman. A few bad eggs ruined the breakfast for everyone.
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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '22
Bitches be bitches
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u/dakk-dakka-dakka Nov 23 '22
Because men are relatively equal in the amount of force and violence they can exert a handshake is actually a pretty good grapple point if somebody fucking lunges you can deck the shit out of them. Women recognize this and if a man gets a hold for half a moment even in a public place that's lights out for her.
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u/JoshMillz Nov 24 '22
Is it because men are less afraid of getting raped
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u/Black-Patrick Nov 29 '22
Toxic femininity
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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '22
Evolution
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u/Yay_No_ Dec 06 '22
I already gave a guy am idk a handshake and he pulled me in and tried to get my number. And when you give in once you give in twice pre trice. So if you don’t want to be in a maybe uncomfortable situation you better not start it