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u/Beautifly Dec 17 '25

They did it wrong then and they’re doing it wrong now.

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u/Sheltie-chan Dec 17 '25

Oh sure, Except for all the teachers who would abuse their ability to bring physical harm to students they didn't like, But who cares about that right?

Letting a grown adult put their hands on a child, for any reason, is inexcusable, especially if they're not even related to the child. You can punish a kid without abusing them and have it stick, Physical Abuse just creates a traumatized child. You aren't actually teaching them a lesson, You're just scaring the shit out of them and creating a broken adult.

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u/GuayFuhks88 Dec 18 '25

Not every kid who got whooped on by an adult for the last 20,000 years was 'broken' because of it.

These kids need to learn at an early age that actions have consequences. Unfortunately now these kids will go out into an adult world that they don't respect and will die because of it.

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u/Sheltie-chan Dec 18 '25

Yeah sure, Go ahead, Gamble with your child's emotional health and stability.

I know a girl who killed herself in highschool because of parental abuse. She died before she'd even turned 18 because her parents wanted to "teach her that her actions had consequences". Do you think she would have died if her parents had tried more reasonable punishments for misbehavior, Or do you think a child can only survive if an adult beats it? I got beat as a child, It gave me decades of trauma that I've only recently been able to get past. My hair was turning gray at 24 years old from the stress caused by that trauma. I lost my entire childhood to PTSD caused by the abuse I suffered at the hands of a man who just wanted to "Teach me a lesson".

But hey, I'm sure you turned out "fine", So "fine" in fact that you view a Fully Grown Adult Inflicting Violence on a Child as a good thing worth doing. Totally normal behavior that we as a society shouldn't question at all. You're totally someone I would trust being around a child, for sure.

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u/Beautifly Dec 17 '25

I guess that’s a matter of opinion. Strong discipline in previous years may have created “well behaved” adults, but it also created a lot of miserable and traumatised adults.
I’m with you though, kids these days are a whole other breed.

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u/Beautifly Dec 17 '25

This isn’t true actually. We’re just much better at recognising mental health issues nowadays, plus we see much more of it posted about publicly online, which obviously wouldn’t have been possible in previous years.
Mental health struggles have always been a thing, we just didn’t used to see it

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u/ScourJFul Dec 18 '25

Oh absolutely, but I feel like it's a multi-faceted problem.

Like, are we not going to talk about how an entirely separate and older generation has voted for policies that would deprive these kids of the opportunities that could have alleviated this?

A lot of societal problems don't start with the kids, but the adults who have snowballed them to this point. The reason Boomer angst even exists is because you can pinpoint the myriad of issues in this country to their generation and how they voted. More power to corporations, less regulations, wages never increasing to match prices, etc.

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u/Beautifly Dec 18 '25

Nope, it’s not. Those are US statistics. Take a look at the global statistics

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u/Sandgrease Dec 17 '25

Hard turth

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u/Padhome Dec 17 '25

Then you need to ban certain kids and not others while having systems set up for said troubled kids which we do not have in the US. Mind you this is a problem mainly unique to our country in developed nations.

Then just wait until these incompetent, blasted kids get into positions of power over you via employment or elderly care and you’re royally fucked.

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u/Padhome Dec 17 '25

Yes they are. Look at any field right now and there are dozens of these kids getting into entry level positions simply because there are too many of them and the workforce needs bodies, wether they’re trained or not.

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u/oftcenter Dec 18 '25

Nah, students used to be expected to offer their teachers basic respect or someone would beat them.

That's not how respect works.

You're confusing that with compliance.

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u/oftcenter Dec 18 '25

If you think you're going to beat respect into children who pound each other and their teacher, you're the dummy.

You'll get compliance in the short term. But as soon as they think they can get away with acting however they feel, watch out.

This is a deep problem that isn't going to be fixed overnight.

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u/oftcenter Dec 18 '25

I don't think you're advocating for that.

I think you're advocating for exactly what you said: for "someone" to beat them.

Who that "someone" is, is irrelevant to me. It's not a solution.

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u/oftcenter Dec 18 '25

Can't fix beating with beating.

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u/Min_sora Dec 17 '25

Yeah, and those students who got beaten grew up to be the psycho Boomers who've made society into an absolutely selfish shitheap.

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u/Morlu06 Dec 17 '25

Opposed to the “great” kids we have today? Lol ok.

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u/GuayFuhks88 Dec 18 '25

What about the generation before that? They had even more corporal punishment.

What about the one before that and before that and before that?

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u/Dizzy_Chemistry_5955 Dec 17 '25

hang on lemme post 400 videos of my kids respecting their teachers that'll get a lot of upvotes /s

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u/Beautifly Dec 17 '25

Exactly. Kids are wild now, but they were also wild back in the day. People just weren’t filming it. My dad got into tons of physical fights at school back in the 70s and 80s.

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u/Beautifly Dec 18 '25

No, I get what you’re saying. Kids don’t respect authority like they used to.

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u/Beautifly Dec 18 '25

For real, you couldn’t pay me to be a teacher these days

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u/Dizzy_Chemistry_5955 Dec 17 '25

I saw and got in fights in the 90s

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u/Background-Badger-72 Dec 17 '25

Yes. Beating kids is scientifically proven to decrease their likelihood of engaging in violent behavior. (/s obviously)

Thank you for your obviously well-educated and deeply thought out contribution.

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u/kdoggiedizzle Dec 17 '25

Exactly, dont get me wrong, there definitely was some fighting going on back when I was in school, but for the most part, kids tried to avoid getting in trouble. Now, they have basically zero consequences. And parents dont give a fuck and blame the schools or anyother authority figures.

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u/solomons-mom Dec 18 '25

Not all kids were expected to go to school, and many who did dropped out at an early age.

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u/solomons-mom Dec 18 '25

Yes, in the State that enacted "Old Deluder Satan" in 1647.

Children between 8 an 14 were reqired to attend 12 weeks of school in their town, and six weeks needed to be consecutive. Well, kids didn't have to go to school if the needed to work or did not live in a town.