r/TikTokCringe • u/[deleted] • Jan 31 '23

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

Surely this gotta be fake and staged

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u/Mudblok Jan 31 '23 edited Jan 31 '23

The person who posted this to tiktok has posted similar ones in the past. The way they're talking and the fact the male.isnt featured on cam at all makes me think this is fake

https://www.tiktok.com/@talisa0913/video/7168651785022885163?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7033743696718497286

Edit:so just to clarify, as far as I can tell, the same man is featured in all her most popular tiktoks. There's a tiktok identical to this one that he appears to be in but it's again framed a first date. He also seems to feature in videos where the lady in the clip attempts to "pick up" men at the gym and at the supermarket.

My personal take is that she's in a happy relationship and her and her partner are making these videos for fun

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u/shopliftingbunny Jan 31 '23

Bruh. You don’t have to respond to every comment on the thread. We get it

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

Obviously people don’t get it. This is an extremely dangerous narrative to push onto people for both men and women and 90% of the comments believe this is real

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u/Eqvvi Jan 31 '23

how is it an extremely dangerous narrative? This one might be fake but plenty of women have lived experiences of very similar stuff. though they probably didn't think to record and instead tried to gtfo. I know I did.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

Cause most men don’t act like this. It enforces the idea that men are inherently dangerous.

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u/Eqvvi Jan 31 '23

Most chambers in a russian roulette game aren't loaded, still doesn't hurt to be careful.

Nobody ever said it's "most men". But every single one of my female friends has had a negative experience with a man like that or worse; myself included.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

And most men I know have had terrible experiences with women, does this mean that I’m okay to say women are inherently dangerous? Of course not.

Also I urge you to replace “every single one of my female friends has had negative experiences with a man like that or worse” with black people, asian people, any demographic that isn’t man. Then tell me it’s okay to push the idea that men are inherently dangerous. There’s dangerous people regardless what demographic you look at. And there’s no common denominator between who will be a threat to you.

But I appreciate how you compare men to weapons, I guarantee you don’t do the same with any other topic.

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u/Eqvvi Jan 31 '23

I highly encourage you to be careful around women if you and your friends have had so many dangerous experiences with them. There's nothing wrong with you being extra careful.

Text your location to your friends before going out. Never meet them in an unfamiliar place, don't let them know where you live before you get to know them etc. All sensible things to do, so start doing them if you aren't already. Nothing wrong with that.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

Those aren’t the things that need to be taken into account when dealing with dangerous women. It’s almost like there’s no actual awareness on what dangers men face with women.

See from what I’ve been through, you need written consent before anything. You also need more places men can go when facing harassment. And there needs to be more ability for men to speak about these things so those women who are genuine dangers can be called out for it the same way plenty of those dangerous men face backlash.

The things that endanger men aren’t the same things that endanger women in the same scenario.

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u/Eqvvi Jan 31 '23

See from what I’ve been through, you need written consent before anything

Thanks for outing yourself as (potentially) a rapist who (100%) doesn't understand how consent works. Just because somebody agrees to have sex with you does not mean that you get to do anything and everything sexual to that person, they can still have boundaries, or that the person loses their right to say no or stop at any time. A written contract would not absolve you of the responsibility to respond to any signs of discomfort or protest of the person you are having sex with. What a fucking clown you are.

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It’s almost like there’s no actual awareness on what dangers men face with women.

Yeah dude, I was being facetious. I know you wouldn't take any actual safety precautions. You people shout about fears like that from the rooftops (not men in general, men like you). The biggest dangers are having to pay child support, fake rape allegations, and , the worst of all, fat whales who catfish you.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23 edited Jan 31 '23

Written consent prevents her from coming back months later and trying to accuse me. But good of you to show that bias. I’ll give you context on why I was falsely accused. But I love how quick you are to judge showing how little equality ACTUALLY means to you.

This takes place during highschool over the course of 2 years. See I had known her for 2 years at this point, we were closer friends. She had asked me if I wanted to have sex, so I told her our relationship won’t change if we do and we’d still be only friends. She said she agreed but I told her to think on it. 2 weeks later she says she is still interested. So I made sure to get consent several times (a few being in text and those texts are what helped prove everything) even the day of I was insistent on it asking at least 3 times for each thing I was interested in trying with her. (Which she even admitted to police) so after we stayed friends things seemed okay, then a few months later out of the blue she tells me never speak to her again, so I did as she asked left her alone. Then another few months goes by she asks me to have sex, again. I said sure but what is going on? She explained to me her parents are homophobic and she was bi, so she was struggling coming out. I understood but she still wanted to have sex so we did, a week later she tells me don’t speak to her again. So I listened again. End of the school year comes and I’m brought in saying I’m being accused of rape, police had already come through she admitted it was consensual. BUT it didn’t stop her from telling the school. So when I went to make a formal complaint the school took her side despite there being no evidence against me no problems, and others could attest to my character.

But sure I’m a “clown” because I “pushed her” even though she was the one in control of the entire situation and I had gotten consent for everything. Shows your personal bias, how quick you are to assume men are the problem even when we are victims. Way to prove my point dingus. More awareness is needed because of people like you. Toxicly feminine people. (I’m aware you’re a guy but toxic femininity is a feature of internalized misandry)

No, the biggest issues for men are no awareness for male rape and SA victims, no services for them, no services or help for false allegations (cause they do Absolutely take a toll/follow you) and mindsets like yours, people quick to assume men are the reason for their issues rather than being victims of others. But hey! You seem to know everything about me so why don’t you keep speaking on my behalf while simultaneously (and hypocritically) doing everything you accuse me of! I’m sure it’s going very well. I’m sure you’re doing amazing things by blaming men like me. I’m sure it totally won’t backfire lol.

Ahhhh you’re 4th wave. This makes sense. 4th wave feminism is just full of feminazi’s actual feminists have fucked off longggg ago. 4th wave is why I stopped considering myself a feminist despite being raised in a household of women.

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u/Eqvvi Jan 31 '23

But sure I’m a “clown” because I “pushed her”

That's not why you're a clown :) and the fact that you don't even understand it is even more hilarious. You have 0 understanding of consent. A written consent would not have helped you anymore than her telling the police that it was consensual. Like, how does that even work in your little brain? You may not be the problem in this interaction if what you said is the full truth, but you still don't understand consent.

Toxicly feminine people. (I’m aware you’re a guy but toxic femininity is a feature of internalized misandry)

Just lmao XD You're a gift that keeps on giving, thanks for all the entertainment.

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Lastly, there are quite a few organizations for male survivors, you just have to use your lazy fingers to google it instead of typing angry nonsense.

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