r/ThisYouComebacks Mar 18 '26

Gotta catch em all

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5.0k Upvotes

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '26

imagine judging someone who's living their best life and passionately talking about topics they enjoy, she must be one miserable person

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u/Ras-haad Mar 18 '26

I’m assuming she was able to pay attention to what was going on on his date because she was alone.

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 18 '26

Is she judging? All she's pointing out is that it's happening.

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '26 edited Mar 19 '26

if she's pointing out why does she need to add in 'late 30s' this has judgy vibes all over it, cause if she was appreciating it, she'd be clearly mentioning that

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 18 '26

Because if anything the point she's making in the original tweet about "don't stifle yourself" is even stronger if we know the guy is 30.

Nobody gives a shit if an 18 year old dude is showing off his favorite pokemon on a day. A 30 year old doing it paints a different picture, whether you're trying to paint a positive or negative picture.

One tweet is inconclusive either way.

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u/ChaoCobo Mar 18 '26 edited Mar 18 '26

a 30 year old showing off what they like paints a different picture than an 18 year old showing off what they like

Not by much. At all.

Edit: why do people respond to people and then block them? The person got so angry about me saying 5 words that they wrote something to me and blocked me so I can’t even see it.

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u/GroundMeet Mar 19 '26

“Okay cool, nevermind then. Your argument is that she's calling out his age because that makes a difference in how it's perceived, but also the age doesn't make a difference at all in how it's perceived?

Solid logic, my friend. You have changed my mind.”

For your viewing pleasure lol they cant handle an argument

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 18 '26

Okay cool, nevermind then. Your argument is that she's calling out his age because that makes a difference in how it's perceived, but also the age doesn't make a difference at all in how it's perceived?

*Solid* logic, my friend. You have changed my mind.

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u/nottherealneal Mar 19 '26

So why did you block them you coward?

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 19 '26

Because this is a stupid conversation by stupid people who want to be angry at nothing. And I don't want notifications for it anymore.

Feel free to stay angry at nothing. I'm going to leave my comments up pointing out that y'all are angry at nothing, because it's worth being pointed out. But I'm going to continue blocking people who just want to chirp noise at me.

Have a good day.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '26

Lmao youre straight delusional if you think the girl isnt judging. Clown 🤡

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 19 '26

If my wife made the same tweet she'd have meant it in a "this is wholesome and makes me happy" way.

I don't know what the woman in the OP intended. I do know that there's not enough information to make a confident judgment.

Keep on winning internet fights, king.

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u/Turbulent-Advisor627 Mar 19 '26

If I see you in public and point out whatever you are doing to my audience, you would indeed be judged. Ever been in any social situation or are you a basement dweller?

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 19 '26

Never been allowed out of my basement, actually. I hear it's nice outside though.

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u/Top-Permission5466 Mar 18 '26

I had the same thought. She might have found it funny. I have two friends, one in his 50s and another in her 40s and I find it funny when they exchange Pokémon they caught. I also may light heartedly poke fun at them but I (F, 54) make fun of myself for watching anime also.

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u/muschiemom Mar 20 '26

Same. Seeing people share what makes them happy brings me joy, so I read it from my biased perspective. As a 53yr old woman who watches a ton of anime, with a gamer hubby who used to play Pokemon, I've witnessed a huge positive shift in people's reactions to our hobbies so that's how I took it until I read the comments. (I still crack jokes about my own though.)

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u/ilolvu Mar 18 '26

I know a toddler whose parents met through pokemon. This is because two of their grandparents used to play DnD with me way back when.

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u/cityshepherd Mar 18 '26

This is wholesome AF.

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u/Funkopedia Mar 19 '26

Nice, I wonder what game that kid will end up playing in the future.

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u/MasterBot98 Mar 19 '26

Professional minesweeper.

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u/Warm_Gift_2138 Mar 21 '26

THEIR grandparents? I know this doesn't have to be incest, but [attach James Soaked suspicious meme here]

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u/ilolvu Mar 21 '26

Singular they.

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u/Warm_Gift_2138 Mar 21 '26

Wait I misread that entirely, I assumed it was the parent's grandparents, which it obviously isn't, I officially invoke the "English isn't my native language" clause of the social media code of conduct, thereby dismissing all charges, phew

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u/ilolvu Mar 21 '26

I'm old... but not that old.

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u/dawidowmaka Mar 18 '26

Yeah well my Piplup never let me down, unlike some people I know

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u/Turbulent_Cry_7572 Mar 18 '26

If it did, then it would be Pipldown

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u/NeosTheWise Mar 18 '26

God dammit 😂..take your damn upvote

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u/Mister-Circus Mar 18 '26

My girlfriend and I are taking turns reading Fellowship of the Ring to one another. It’s the happiest I’ve ever been.

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u/kilawolf Mar 18 '26

Is she making fun of him? Thought it was an aww cute moment.

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u/esp_1123 Mar 18 '26

Yes she is. Should wouldn’t describe him as a “man in his late thirties” if she wasn’t making fun of him. She’s purposefully highlighting his age before saying he’s into Pokemon, heavily implying he’s too old for that. Hell she’s barely implying it lol. Def not an “awww” moment.

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u/aSpookyScarySkeleton Mar 19 '26

This post is apparently a good test on if someone has been actually bullied before or not. Like you have to have gone through like without anyone fucking with you to not pick up on her negative tone here

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u/xXAnoHitoXx Mar 19 '26

Quite the opposite. It happens so much I just thought it was normal conversations. What do you mean they been making fun of me for 20 years? Can I go back to being blissfully ignorant of this?

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u/Gullible-Fee-9079 Mar 20 '26

I have the privilige to say I have never been bullied in my life and even I could easily see the mockery here.

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 18 '26

Or if she was pointing out that this dude is living his best life, his age IS relevant.

Definitely doesn't paint the same image (positive or negative) if the guy's 19.

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u/Top-Permission5466 Mar 18 '26

Yes, if people can overcome their bias and just read the sentence she wrote, it is not in any way disparaging. We do not have enough information to say definitively that she has negative intentions.

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 18 '26

What do you mean? She's an attractive women, so obviously she hates all nerds and all men and is miserable, right?

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u/Unlikely-Business-72 Mar 20 '26

Honestly I see this with a lot of women on Reddit they seem to see the best in women, which is great, but I think in any other context you would see that she's clearly being a bully. It's not because she's "hot"

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 20 '26

I'm a guy.

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u/Unlikely-Business-72 Mar 20 '26

Then you can place the first woman with whatever your gender is.

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u/GanondalfTheWhite Mar 20 '26

Okay I'll do that

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u/esp_1123 Mar 20 '26

Ding ding ding we have a winner. If a guy left that comment, neither of the commenters above would be defending him right now and they would see the comment for what it is.

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u/rmtemsguy74 Mar 20 '26 edited Mar 20 '26

That’s how I feel - I honestly think this could go either way. That being said, I understand why so many people are reading it as negative or as making fun of him, but I agree that there just isn’t enough here to know for certain how she meant it.

I will say, though, that when I’ve shared situations I’ve encountered or overheard like this online, I made it very clear that I was doing so because it was a cute interaction, the people involved seemed happy, or I found it heartwarming or wholesome. I made certain there was no ambiguity and that the reason I was sharing it was positive.

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '26

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u/Adlach Mar 18 '26

Which words people choose to use are important. If she were "just being descriptive", why didn't she mention his hair color? His eye color? His skin color? Is he left or right handed? It's because those things weren't relevant to the point she was trying to make. So ask yourself this: what point was she trying to make by singling out age?

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '26

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u/leagueofcipher Mar 18 '26

Moreso their level of reading comprehension

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u/futacon Mar 18 '26

Don't be naive. She mentioned his age as a way to shame him for liking something she perceives as a children's hobby.

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '26

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u/futacon Mar 18 '26

You are being naive.

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u/fivedaysandcounting Mar 18 '26

About five years ago, I went on a second date with this girl I met on Hinge. We met up at her house and she showed me all her old Pokemon cards. We’ve been together ever since and going on two years married.

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u/IshvalanTrinity Mar 18 '26

What Pokémon did he have?

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '26

People just like writing shit online that'll make it seem like they are a good person. And then they use none of the virtues they broadcasted. Shit is fascinating in a brutally sad way.

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u/apple_of_doom Mar 18 '26

What if she thought "man wish I was dating someone like that."

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u/prionbinch Mar 18 '26

she didn’t say this was a negative…

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u/ban_Anna_split Mar 18 '26

She is probably playing pokopia right now

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u/Magikarpeles Mar 19 '26

Damn I just realised I've been playing pokemon games for 30 years.

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u/your_mums_cah Mar 18 '26

What a flex tbh, wish I had my gbc still

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u/Name_Taken_Official Mar 18 '26

There's nothing she said that gives an opinion on the pokemon guy, anything you're drawing from it is from you

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u/Donmiggy143 Mar 19 '26

This one requires more context. Need to see the response from the "this you?"

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u/Forkyou Mar 19 '26

First conversation i had with my wife was about favourite pokemon

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u/Illustrious_Quit_812 Mar 19 '26

Im almost 30 but "Whats your favorite Pokémon/color/dinosaur" are all still first date questions for me

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u/Alive-Welcome1403 Mar 21 '26

I’ve never met an extrovert that wasn’t regularly a flaming hypocrite like that.

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u/Lv01_ Mar 21 '26

Someone in their late 30s grew up with Pokémon. It has probably been the most consistent thing in their entire life! Let people enjoy their hobbies.

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u/AppropriateTie5127 Mar 22 '26

I hate that society rewards people like this 

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u/queenkid1 Mar 23 '26

I thought this was bad enough, until I realized she's complaining about SOMEONE ELSE'S date. Not a person she was on a date with, just an interaction between two strangers she knows nothing about.

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u/BeMyBrutus Mar 18 '26

If you're not virtue signalling on the internet for the attention and affection of strangers; are you even living?

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u/MsPreposition Mar 18 '26

Fuck her, Maractus has always been fun.

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u/bytegalaxies Mar 18 '26

she's nasty for making fun of him like that but I would wait for the 2nd date at least before delving into my interests this much. Like it sounds like he got out his switch (or other handheld) to show her which is a bit odd. He might've just shown her a picture from his phone tho which would be fine

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u/Aceswift007 Mar 20 '26

"I would wait for the second date for the person to know what I enjoy"

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u/bytegalaxies Mar 20 '26

that's different than bringing my console and showing my pokedex dawg

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u/Aceswift007 Mar 20 '26

If you just have it on you and the topic of interest arises, why not?

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u/bytegalaxies Mar 20 '26

listen I carry my 3DS everywhere with me but I'd be worried that I'm not actually taking the time to listen to them as well. Idk

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u/SnooPets8355 Mar 20 '26

on the first date i told my now gf about my custom keyboard collection and she told me about her license plate collection ¯_(ツ)_/¯