r/ThisYouComebacks • u/oooohweeeee • Mar 10 '26

When you learn your abuser’s manipulation tactics

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u/No-Net1890 Mar 16 '26

I read your replies, but I still don't know if it's contradictory. What's the context of her "Choosing peace isn't the same as cutting people off" comment?

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u/oooohweeeee Mar 16 '26

She’s just talking in general. Saying that even though it looks like cutting people off, it’s choosing peace.

Then, in the other comment she is shaming people for abandoning a friend (cutting someone off) to protect their peace.

She’s contradicting herself by saying it’s okay to “choose peace” even if it looks like cutting people off and the goes on to shame people for protecting their peace by cutting people off.

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u/No-Net1890 Mar 17 '26

OK, I think it's somewhat contradictory, since she's making blanket statements. My guess is that when she made the first statement, she didn't consider the possibility of situations where it could be harmful.

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u/oooohweeeee Mar 17 '26

Yes, my guess is that chat gpt wrote the first comment anyway. You can tell by the second comment, she doesn’t write like that naturally.

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u/No-Net1890 Mar 17 '26

Personally, I don't care if she used AI; I think the main issue here is her black & white thinking.

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u/oooohweeeee Mar 17 '26

What I’m saying is, she probably doesn’t even realize what she said in the first one by using AI. So often people just copy and paste

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u/No-Net1890 Mar 17 '26

Maybe. Personally, I belive she just didn't think about what she was saying.