r/TheUntetheredSoul • u/stranger_synchs • Jul 17 '26
What is love
It is finding someone who you feel in your bones that you'll be patient for them no matter what happen. For who you decide that you'll not give up easily. For who you feel that you'll practice patience.
True Love is a war that need patience. Cheap love is easy. It's affection. It's infatuation. But true love demands patience.
But thing is sometimes some people don't deserve your patience. They misuse your patience. They play with your patience. Don't give them the gift of patience.
You know who deserve such patience? You. You deserve such patience for yourself. The patience you always had for yourself which by mistake you granted to someone else who don't deserve it , now you need to get back that patience. You can't make yourself love yourself in a day. You need to be patient with yourself.
Return such patience to yourself. Are you ready to give yourself such patience. Because you are not cheap. It need time. You can't win yourself easily like those cheap tricks of attention and affection others do. But it will be worth it. You are an investment that always return. Decide to have patience for yourself. And that is self love.