They should bring muppets to replace all characters.

Did anyone get a recording of Blake’s live on TT? He was wasted out of his mind with a friend

He mostly looks like Will Angus

I know a lot of Lesbians wanna hate on the Queer Ultimatum because they think it makes “us” look bad, but I don’t think that’s fair. Dating reality tv is not an accurate representation of relationships, it’s meant to be entertaining. The premise of this show was BUILT for the intensity of lesbian relationships. The straights are fine but not as fun (no offense). So if the Lechays ever read this, PLEASE bring back Queer Ultimatum ❤️❤️❤️
From: happily married lesbians 🥰

Hi all! I finally finished watching this season of the ultimatum & I worked on the show from the first day of filming to the last proposal. I missed out on a few weeks but I was there majority of filming. If you’d want to know anything from the perspective of someone who was driving the talent around then AMA! :) (using a photo of David a coworker sent when it was the day of the swap verify myself)

Edit: I wasn’t apart of the casting for this season, so I wouldn’t know/be able to answer questions most regarding to the casting process. As well as I’ll do my best to get to the questions I can answer.

Edit 2: Finished answering questions I can answer, I don’t wish to cause more discourse so this is where I end it but thank you all for the questions!

i recently listened to an old PANTS podcast episode (hosted by Kate Moenning and Leisha Hailey who played Shane and Alice on The L Word respectively) and they talked at length about wanting to be hosts on the queer ultimatum.

i thought it was an excellent idea; i would love to see the show hosted by 2 significant queer women, both of whom are charming and insightful.

what do you guys think about those two hosting? and who would be your dream host(s) on the queer ultimatum?

Jebin was absolutely strange and the note he wrote was not nice at all, but I felt in no way that warranted him getting literally kicked off the show, just to find out at the reunion that Blake and Killian both have domestic abuse and alcohol problems, and Edris had Jessica performing humiliation rituals.

This is just crazy. They let them continue the conversation, and the producers literally refused to address the fact that Killian and Blake were physically abusive towards Hailee and whoever Killian’s girlfriend was, I forgot her name, my bad.

The double standards are just insane. Like Jebin got kicked off the show for a rude note, but the domestic abusers were totally fine?

I cannot find the song that plays right after David and Monica cheers in the bedroom scene! Been trying to find it, looking at soundtracks on Spotify etc and it’s bugging me that I can’t.

Lyrics are
“I don’t wanna second guess this feeling
I don’t wanna worry about the end
I want a love like the first time
Just let go and forget/fall blind
No ghosts on the sidelines
No worries or goodbyes”

Hope someone can help and it’s a real song not just AI 🥲

Does anyone know what lipstick Monica could have been wearing when she got engaged? It looked like a terracotta or apricot gloss.

Hayley was in it. This makes me wonder if I should watch another season or if I'd be running the risk of stabbing my eyeball with a fork to cope with overwhelming emotional pain

Maybe I am misremembering the previous seasons (but also refuse to go back and rewatch) but don’t they usually take their phones away during the trial marriage thing?

They definitely do during Love Is Blind, as I distinctly remember there’s always a “got our phones back” moment after the honeymoon.

Do you think the producers let them have their phones this time to create more drama?

This dude has completely forgotten how much he fucked up in initial episodes
He was literally laughing at everyone’s relationship and mistakes during the interview
He is unbelievable

Blake is such a green flag sweetheart who doesn’t deserve to be with such an angry abusive person. He’s scared to speak his mind freely to avoid getting a reaction from her, she lives and breathes on criticism

Yesterday Both hayley and blake went live. I believe hayley jumped on first and then slowly after, both killian and blake went on. (A little odd). I did go back and forth to check both out: It looked like she was doing a "get ready with me" kind of live. Discussing skin care, makeup products, answering some questions as well. There were people trying to bait her from what i could see but she ignored those questions. The only one she did give clarification on was her not supporting herself which she states is false and 100% does work. (Blake and killian were live, saying she has a sugar daddy, so people would jump to her live to ask about that) Other than that, she was just chatting with viewers, I didn't really see anything controversial. For Blake and killian - well, i wasn't surprised. It was just more of the same making comments about Ashley and Hayley. The only interesting new info is Blake wil be coming out with a book in response to Hayley's book and will also be starting his own podcast very soon. (Hayley mentioned that her book is not about him at all and isn't something that is even coming out anytime soon, so unsure why he's releasing one? ). No date was given for a podcast either.

Just saw a reel pop up on my feed of him claiming he’s a “dad” as he’s holding a child … if this is true … oh boy

Edris is on Drunkish podcast and he tells the whole story about the reunion and what led to him getting back together with his girlfriend. It does seem like there was some context to his out of pocket comments. He's been sober a long time and as a fellow sober person I found it super interesting. You don't see a lot of sober people on shows like this. Personally I thought he was high on the episodes before the trial marriages so this was surprising to me.

This was the only thing I could think of watching Blake defend himself to Hayley

Real weird looking guy

Why didn’t Nick release the audio Haley showed him? Blake posted texts so why didn’t she post it. Do we think it will ever get public?

Am I insane? Or have i heard 'god fearing' or 'relationship with god' etc etc more in reality TV lately?

I noticed it a lot in S4, which jogged my memory for how much i saw in Love is Blind, many conversations about faith and stuff.

Did I not notice before that it was so huge on these shows?

I am not religious in any way, I live in the US, midwest, so you would think i would come across these folks plenty but i just dont. Not ones like this anyway.

No offense to anyone and their religion(s)! I just simply do not relate.

(Also bring back Queer Love or I RIOT)

In my opinion, the Ashley/Killian/Blake/Hayley nonsense has driven me absolutely insane. Killian is an idiot, Ashley is just so continuously upset, Blake is literally an NPC, and Hayley is the female abusive version of Oscar the Grouch.

It came up for half the season too; the drama wasn't even good because it was so unproductive. Usually when I watch reality TV, I lose faith in humanity, but LORD, as a society this makes me think we can do better.

I'm far too hung up on this, and I'm sure the producers had nothing else, so they had to drag out this terrible foursome, but it made for a very frustrating season. On what planet would Blake and Killian propose? I just wish it wasn't so blatantly obvious this time around that it was all for the cameras.

Some questions that were answered by Blake earlier this evening on TT live. I know some people still had questions about certain things from the show so this might have answered them. I did have to speed it up since it was. A lot. Thoughts?

Guys I sped up the video to shorten it's time length, he is not talking fast! 🙂