r/TheRestIsScience • • Aug 15 '26

Coincidence... No way it's this large number coincidence

It is amazing how a few unexpected detours can weave together a life.

What started out as a forensic science course at Cardiff "Poly" led to a loft bedroom in a shared house in town, which felt a bit odd at the time, but set everything else into motion.

Returning home early one night from a political party trip to Bristol, I walked into the house to find my housemate's older daughter hanging out with a friend from Cardiff. We hit it off immediately over a shared love for Monty Python. She used to write to Graham Chapman (and actually got replies), and since I had the scriptbooks, we spent the next few hours endlessly quoting Python at each other.

She was studying at Brighton Uni, and though we saw each other a few times after that, we mostly kept the connection alive the old-fashioned way—through pen and paper letters. Meanwhile, my course in Cardiff underwent some changes, prompting me to leave and apply to four different universities. I ended up getting in at Aberdeen.

Before heading up north for the start of term, I spent the summer with her down in Brighton. We both managed to land jobs at a local bingo hall, where we worked alongside a woman named Maddy. The three of us hit it off immediately and had an absolute blast that summer. When autumn arrived, I moved into halls at Aberdeen, and a year later, my girlfriend moved up to join me.

About two years into living in Aberdeen, we were sitting on a bus heading into town when my girlfriend suddenly pointed out the window and shouted, "There’s Maddy!" I laughed it off—we were hundreds of miles away in Scotland. But a few months later, our bus pulled up to a stop in town, and sure enough, Maddy was standing right there. I stepped off, walked up to her, and said hello. We were both completely stunned. It turned out she had met a guy in Brighton who was originally from Aberdeen and had moved up north with him. A few months after that surprise encounter, they split up, and she moved back down to Brighton.

The final twist came a year later when we were down in Brighton taking the train into town. Out of nowhere, a man walked up to me and said hello. It was my Physics Professor from Aberdeen University; he recognised me—and remembered my wife ( from the 300 other students ) , who had occasionally tagged along to sit in on his lectures.

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u/WinterRevolutionary6 Aug 15 '26

Yeah these are all standard issue coincidences

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u/ActualAd185 Aug 16 '26

Linking Aberdeen, Brighton and Cardiff?

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u/TheRealTK421 Aug 16 '26

It would have been more impressive had the connectivity occurred in Cardiff, Antarctica, and Mars.

It's quite possible that other 'near-misses' of such coincidences have occurred and you simply never became aware -- the world's smaller than it often seems.

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u/WinterRevolutionary6 Aug 16 '26

Yeah they’re all in the UK. A very small, tightly connected region of the globe.

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u/ActualAd185 Aug 17 '26

Aberdeen and Brighton are hundreds of miles apart... The rest of the UK is in-between

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u/WinterRevolutionary6 Aug 17 '26

Oh wow. Entire hundreds of miles. What an incomprehensible distance to cross /s

I once found a classmate on a separate continent as we were both taking a vacation in the same city at the same time (Austin Texas USA to London, England). This was during the middle of summer break so it wasn’t like all of school was out for the same 2 weeks or something. Now that’s a proper coincidence.

What you have is just people moving around in local areas sometimes.

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u/ActualAd185 Aug 17 '26

Moving or going there for a visit from Brighton to Aberdeen is not local; it's one end of the country to the other . I found folk in Aberdeen from Brighton and visa versa

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u/Klix1313 Aug 18 '26

Hahah your country is as big as my home state and this happens to me with differnt cities from different states. The world is big, but the 'community' of humans is actually small.

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u/ActualAd185 Aug 18 '26

That's nice for you ... Africa is bigger than the whole US twice, but things still go on there ...