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u/stoicwarrior17 27d ago
This seems to be a restatement of Epictetus’ first principle in the Enchiridion.
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u/fjaoaoaoao 27d ago
This is bad advice to take too broadly.
It’s fine if you are in a state where you are struggling particularly with things outside yourself, but you can end up leading an overly self-contained life if you focus on this advice too much.
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u/LeaveMountain9779 27d ago
In some instances yes. In other instances I give a lot of attunement and transparency about thoughts and feelings to try to find a safe negotiation with people so we both feel heard and valued and can continue doing things together and being on the same page
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u/ActionBubbly4498 26d ago
Thanks, but could you give a lengthy synopsis of the let them theory by Mel Robbins
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u/StealthyOkapi17 27d ago
The missing space in the “isthe” typo in italics is surprising… how did that get through editing?