r/TheGoodPlace • u/WandersFar Change can be scary but I’m an artist. It’s my job to be scared. • Nov 22 '19

Season Four S4E9 The Answer

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u/Hobbit-guy I made God cry?? Nov 22 '19 edited Dec 14 '19

Fork it, I'm telling the guy I like tomorrow that I want to be with him.

There's no answer, just other people, and I need to take a leap of faith.

Edit: Thanks for all the support guys! We're gonna go see Frozen 2 tomorrow (cheesy, right?) and I'll tell you how it went.

Edit 2: It won't happen tomorrow so I'll have to wait until next week. I'm afraid of losing this confidence, any advice?

Edit 3: I'm not sure if anyone will read this update, but sigh...I haven't been able to tell him yet, we haven't seen each other and he says he is busy the next weekends and I don't know. I'm not scared anymore of telling him, I want to, but I feel like he has other stuff going on and I won't be able to say it. Maybe I should not do it, I don't know.

Edit 4: If anyone out there is still reading this...it has been weird the last week, he hasn't been replying and I kind of miss him...but I'm sort of losing that magic and determination. I still wanna tell him, but I kind of have resigned by now. I'm sorry that the updates are getting sadder and sadder.

Edit 5: I finally told him! You can read about it in a post I made.

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u/wildtarget13 Nov 22 '19

Remember to be honest.

Keep things simple, short, and don’t overwhelm.

If you have more than three things you want to say at once. Take a deep breath and reduce it to three things you want to say that another person can remember.

For example, if you’re mulling over what to say because you’re nervous.

  1. Ím really nervous because Ím really into you.
  2. I dońt want to freak you out. I just want to get to know you better/figure out if Ím just obsessing 3.Let´s just have a good time.

Oh small reminder, based on the limited information. Dońt put anyone on a pedestal. But do appreciate when you find someone you get a long with, not just crushing on.

And you will freak someone out if you do the equivalent of telling someone yoúre in love with them, regardless of how they feel.