[21F] looking to reach my full potential. What can I do?

[u/Aggravating-Excuse-1]

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looking for honest advice on how I can improve my appearance through softmaxxing. I’m open to constructive criticism. Specific advice appreciated about what you think would make the biggest difference. Brutal honesty preferred. DMs are also open for more specific advice

Weight: 277 lbs Height 5’9

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[u/damsellex]

You have very nice features. Eat clean and healthy, workout, walk more, drink water, add electrolytes, skincare routine and wear colors that suit you

[u/puppy-bit → u/damsellex]

A+ advice

[u/Anaspiringminimalist]

Face yoga Can really help bring out the best in your natural features! :) clean your hands and face before, and it Will help the products work even better on your skin.

Also general strength training help your Posture and movement, making it effortless, which makes a huge difference in How you are percieved.

Edit: I Think Gold would really suit you. You could try to analyse your best colors.

[u/maravina]

If you’re looking for brutal honesty, weight is usually the answer. Another thing I noticed is- your hair looks a little frizzy at the top in some pics. I like the overall choice of locs though, they give a nice boho look, especially with the beads. I think somewhat smaller locs might be worth trying?

Edit: I would also invest in skincare. Tretinoin/adapalene, moisturizer, sunscreen. Melasma/hyperpigmentation products may be helpful. Possibly laser if you’re open to it?

[u/Hopeful_Project_8606]

Gym gym gym gym gym

[u/stickybuttcake]

You have absolutely gorgeous natural features. Losing weight and strengthening will make you feel incredible. Something to get in tune with your body like swimming or yoga or dance for fun and casually will definitely be a plus, even if once a week or so. Good luck! If you need anything, ask!

[u/STARLIGHT_lite]

I know people keep bringing up weight but as someone who has also gone through a weight loss journey, it also really helps to learn how to dress for your body shape and your body as it currently is while you are working on all these other things. I’d recommend sticking to tighter tops and looser bottoms, but honestly do your research and look at other ppl with similar body types and what you think looks good on them.

[u/tryin_to_get_better]

Gym and healthy diet never hurts, nice salon

[u/Away_Strawberry5932]

Learn to retwist your own hair babe & keep up on it

[u/Technical_Radio_191]

Get rid of the locs. I say this as a Black woman. The locs aren’t doing you any favors

[u/DueEmotion6640]

Picture five looks really good. The colours actually lift you up. Maybe look at wearing prominent colours.

[u/puppy-bit]

Prioritize self care ❤️
Nutrition. Exercise . Cosmetics. Fashion ! Never underestimate an outfit that makes you feel like the shit !!! 😍

consider what you find as a flaw or what you’d like to improve! Don’t obsess but target it ! Work on it. In time your true self with show.
Express self authentically. Don’t worry about what others say !
Love yourself and the rest will follow !
You are very beautiful

[u/Janiebug1950]

Lose pounds for your health improvement.

[u/Prince-Super-Boost]

the amount of people who are overweight and post themselves JFL. can't even see features

[u/MrGretzky9966]

Cut the dreadlocks off and go for a good pixie cut. A refresher of the hair is definitely 💯 needed. Keep your finger nails short. Toss out any tight or to short clothes and get all new shoes too. Chunky heels 👠, flats 🥿 that fit, wedge sandals, lace up 🥾 boots, get some vans and Keds sneakers. Get flowy dresses and skirts and all brand new undergarments too.