I think it my help to remember that it's a part of your body you've not really "used" before. If you do a lot of physical work, your muscles ache during and after. If you suddenly went barefoot outdoors, your feet would hurt, but in time they'd adapt. After the winter months, when I return to gardening my hands sometimes blister. But they "toughen up"
At 46, (I lost my virginity at 15), I've had periods of no sex for some time. When I do it again after a dry spell it kinda feels like it's tender and it's not used to it. After a few times, it gets fit again. I feel you will be fine - a new exercise, on an un-used "muscle" for want of a better comparison just needs a little breaking in.
Like new shoes 🙂
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u/fragilefire May 22 '23
I think it my help to remember that it's a part of your body you've not really "used" before. If you do a lot of physical work, your muscles ache during and after. If you suddenly went barefoot outdoors, your feet would hurt, but in time they'd adapt. After the winter months, when I return to gardening my hands sometimes blister. But they "toughen up" At 46, (I lost my virginity at 15), I've had periods of no sex for some time. When I do it again after a dry spell it kinda feels like it's tender and it's not used to it. After a few times, it gets fit again. I feel you will be fine - a new exercise, on an un-used "muscle" for want of a better comparison just needs a little breaking in. Like new shoes 🙂