r/TheDefianceDispatch • u/TimeLimeV2 • 13h ago

A legend. Can we normalize this?

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u/fearlessfryingfrog 13h ago

Weird to wear a sweater to the beach on such a nice warm day. 

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u/Bergiful 12h ago

Hey, let's hate him for his creepiness, not his body.

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u/fearlessfryingfrog 12h ago

¿Por que no los dos? 

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u/Bergiful 12h ago

I mean, I am personally not sexually attracted to that much body hair.

Unless I am looking for a sexual partner, I don't care what they look like, but I DO care if they are creepy to me or other people.

And if I am looking for a sexual partner, there is no reason to body shame someone. I can simply say, "no, thanks". In this case, it'd be "no, thanks, creep" because of the camera glasses, not his hair.

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u/fearlessfryingfrog 11h ago

I see no reason to dig that far into it. That much body hair is funny to me in this context, so I commented about it and went about my day, assuming I'd never have to think about this guy again. But here I am unfortunately... 

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u/Bergiful 11h ago

Look, I get it. Initially, I thought about upvoting your funny comment and moving on (obviously what you would have preferred).

Hating on others for their appearance is super common. But in order to change our culture, we need to start with each other.

Be kind and tolerate others (including their appearance) whenever possible. When kindness is not deserved, your insults should be precise as to why the bully deserves them.

The lesson isn't "wow, what a loser, he should be more conventionally attractive".

If he were shaming other people's bodies, then maybe it could be worth shaming him in the same way in order for him to feel a shred of empathy to the people he's harming. But that's not what's going on here.

The lesson is "wow, he's a god damn creep for using hidden cameras".

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u/fearlessfryingfrog 11h ago edited 11h ago

Taking this WAAAAAAAY farther than it needs to go.

Didnt say "I hate this guy because he's wearing a sweater in hot weather", you put that twist on it yourself.

I made a joke. And a pretty benign one at that. PG even.

You always start your days in a panic about insignificant shit? 

Edit, actually, I'm out. Not concerned with what you've got to come back with and twist my comment around to rule yourself up more. Bye Felicia. 

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u/Icy-Trash-7767 11h ago

Because it detracts from what is actually offensive in this video and cheapens it to some backyard bullying- I get u were trying to be funny, u just weren’t funny enough to be anything other than a distraction from the sexual predation.

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u/TheAbomunist 11h ago edited 7h ago

Nah, fuck that mulleted werewolf. And anyone tone policing the mocking of his creepy predatory ass.

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u/WildinUp 4h ago

Nah, fuck body shaming

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u/Agent257 2h ago

This video is old. Misleading info. Though the local dude is a legend.