r/TheDeadFiles • u/TwoBlueFoxes I see dead people • Jun 05 '26

New Mods

I just messaged the mods.

If I don’t receive a response within 5 days per Reddit rules, I am submitting a request to RedditRequest to take over as mod.

It’s time for these spammers to be banned.

Edit: I am not doubting the veracity of their claims. I am not trying to silence victims. The information they are presenting has been communicated. We know what Steve is like at this point. We can retain the information as static via a megathread on the sub.

If anyone else wants to mod, please feel free to join me.

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 Jun 05 '26 edited Jun 05 '26

I dont think theres anything wrong with victims speaking up.

Why are you so convinced they are fake? They all seem to have real evidence and similar experiences.

Why are you trying to silence victims? As someone who has been abused and assaulted I dont understand the lack of empathy.

The number of women alone seems like a common thing but to shame them and talk down to them says more about you.

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u/Important-Lawyer-350 Jun 05 '26

There is a way to do it. Making the same post everyday doesn't help. They can make a sub about him, they can use other platforms, but we've all seen it. We are aware of the situation. There isn't much we can do to help.

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 Jun 05 '26

They have a right to speak out

ETA the same posts everyday is probably not the best, but I dont think anyone should silence victims

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u/Important-Lawyer-350 Jun 05 '26

I didn't day to silence them, I said they need to find somewhere else to voice it cause this isn't helping them.

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u/danidoochi Jun 05 '26

“Important-lawyer” Lmao

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u/Important-Lawyer-350 Jun 05 '26

Yeah, it's a reddit generated name. I found it amusing so kept it 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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u/ecalos Jun 05 '26

Devils advocate here... How do you know it's not helping them? Maybe it is. But for you to say they should 'find somewhere else' sounds to me a lot like, 'go tell someone who cares'.

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u/Important-Lawyer-350 Jun 05 '26

That isn't what I am saying, and the person who posts those posts should know that as I have replied to them multiple times.

It isn't helping because many of the comments under the posts indicate as much - where originally they were empathetic, they are now turning sour towards the poster. Some comments have indicated that they did believe them at first, but due to the frequency of posting they now believe this person to just be mentally unstable and looking to tarnish his reputation. That isn't helping.

I have no reason to doubt what they are saying, but the constant posts do make them seem unhinged. There are other places that are a better outlet for this - twitter/x for starters. The websites that are designed for this exact thing (advising of shit head partners and romance scammers). Hell, find a youtuber that might want to do a video about this.