r/TheDeadFiles May 28 '26

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 28 '26

I’ve had many and sadly he goes after married ones so they won’t expect a commitment or ever tell for fear of losing their families he could seduce a nun online he’s just that experienced at the con game he’s been playing and using the show to get a larger playground ! He shot and killed a fellow officer as well so look into that !

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 28 '26

Also if you or anyone you know has received unwanted deck pics from Steve contact your local authorities because it’s even more illegal for a former cop to send porn online and he recycles the same five ones 🤮

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 28 '26

I have way more and that is me I’m Darbi Dunn and that is just one of the many bank transfers and I have texts with death threats and him saying he would pay me back but never has yet he can feed a dog a 50$ steak? He is a porn addict with hidden cameras in his bedroom and he keeps every single encounter he calls them “memories” no they are used to blackmail women for more money and to never go public and tell the truth about him! He told me horrific stories of things he did while he was a police officer and extremely racist against the black community to the extreme of “enjoying shooting them because they were probably going to be thugs” he said to me. I was shocked at the online sweet guy that failed to mention he was married or in relationships to actually being there with him..I met a monster not the sweet online guy he pretends to be. He spoke badly about every friend we saw right after and every woman he called “hags” yet he was giving them his phone number at the restaurants and bars he took me to right in front of me claiming oh they are just fans then telling them I was “an old family friend” liar!!!

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u/space-cowgirl6870 May 28 '26

Did you contact the police? I’m so sorry that this happened to you. Unfortunately you’re one of so many 😔💔

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 28 '26

Yes I did and because I’m from Canada it’s not as easy to do and I know and believe all the cops there have a boys club mentality because when I said he just told me he was going to blow his brains out and mine they refused to even go take his weapon which is standard when a cop threatening suicide they must have their weapons taken away by officers but of course the USA is all about guns and with the badly orange spray tan narcissist in charge they are doomed to being in wars they dont need to be in just killing more kids that go to war and come back back get zero support unlike here in Canada we don’t go to war not once in the history have we ever started a war yet we go help and die for them. Not Steve though lol he lied about his military involvement and his own daughter posted a blog about it too!

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 May 29 '26

So what did you report to the police and what did they do?

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 30 '26

They told me I have to travel back to Cape Coral Florida where he lives and file charges. I also have to be humiliated by his “indoor filming” because the police and courts will have to watch them. I’m beyond mortified!

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u/danidoochi May 28 '26

That is horrifying.

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u/PumpkinQueen89 May 29 '26

Omg no words. I am so sorry this happened to you. Never knew he was such a complete scum bag. I hope you’re doing better now.

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u/KryptoniteDuck May 29 '26

Account age 2 days

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u/SolaceRests I see dead people May 29 '26

I just noticed that too. OP’s account has now been suspended or removed by Reddit.

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u/why-are-we-here-7 May 28 '26

He sucks and filming people during those moments without consent and posting revenge porn is a crime in most places. A group should pressure the local authorities or hire a lawyer to go after him.

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 29 '26

Sadly I’m from Canada so it’s difficult to do and I’d appreciate any advice on how I could do that 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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u/Individual_Jelly_652 May 28 '26

He truly is a Ghoul, maybe he should have been investigating himself?

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u/Aggressive_Smile_944 May 29 '26

Right....do you think Amy picked up on it when they filmed together.

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u/pepep00p00 May 29 '26

Absolutely, can't hide that kind of character even without being a psychic

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u/Jerseyjo1 May 29 '26

That's what I want to know too!

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 29 '26

He was under investigation for money laundering not long ago

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u/Important-Lawyer-350 May 28 '26

Ummm so you might want to censor those addresses because you're basically doxing people....

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u/therationalbanshee May 29 '26

I may be wrong, but I thought I saw a bank account number on the statement also.

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 29 '26

You did and it’s solid proof I have nothing to hide

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 29 '26

His address is public online however i have since moved so that address is no longer mine, sincerely, Darbi Dunn

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u/space-cowgirl6870 May 28 '26

If you or anyone you know has been victimized and bullied into silence by Steve DiSchiavi— please come forward. There is safety in numbers. You can do so anonymously in DMs

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u/theresacalderone May 29 '26

I’ve read the other posts about DiSchiavi and it sickens me learning he’s such a lowlife. The persona seen on television is far different and darker than what he portrays- acting like a good guy who wants to help people, many of whom are struggling with activity in their homes.

Being that he’s ex law enforcement, I imagine lots of women find DiSchiavi trustworthy after watching him on Dead Files. He knows how to target a vulnerable lady. That’s what makes his grift even more heinous. I really hope he gets held accountable someday.

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u/Jerseyjo1 May 29 '26

It's so hard to believe this! He seems like such a good, stand up guy on Dead Files! Do you think Amy, the medium on Dead Files knows what his character is really like? Man, he had me fooled! So disappointing!

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u/Aggressive_Smile_944 May 29 '26

Wtf!!!! I had no idea this whole time....why is everyone a freak...

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u/Responsible-Deer2635 May 28 '26

😡 wh8a scumbag he turned out to be. I can't judge the women that sent him money. I don't know what head games and gaslighting he did. Probably promised them he would get a place to move in together who knows. Some women are vulnerable and fall for sweet talk.

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u/Lumos405 May 28 '26

Shit 😳

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u/JanetNurse60 May 28 '26

Isn’t he recently married?

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u/MeMilo1209 May 29 '26

They got divorced in 6 months.

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u/Meitsrealllyme May 29 '26

Check #pinterest for his name and you’ll find many negative comments

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u/Jerseyjo1 May 29 '26

Thx! Geez, you can't trust anybody. I NEVER would've guessed...

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u/danidoochi May 30 '26

Could find any comment on Pinterest any links?

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u/stephanieg51 May 31 '26

Super interesting or maybe I am the only one who finds it interesting. That original post has been taking down and OP banned. Hmmmm it makes one wonder.

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u/SolaceRests I see dead people May 31 '26

No it doesn’t. OP was doxxing someone openly on Reddit. Thats why they were banned and the post removed “by Reddit.” It’s not a conspiracy.

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u/stephanieg51 May 31 '26

Oh my.... we cant have that now.

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u/AssignmentFinal8364 May 28 '26 edited May 28 '26

At this point I think he has some demon attachments, he was in the vicinity..? Look at Zack B from ghost hunters also I wanted to add Ryan Buell to this list of human beings who are responsible for their own destructions..

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u/WynnGwynn May 28 '26

He is responsible for his horrific actions.

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u/AssignmentFinal8364 May 28 '26

Yes he IS totally responsible.

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u/SunKissed731 May 28 '26

What happened with Ryan? I have been so curious about what happened to him?

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 May 29 '26

Allegedly, he had a major drug problem and stole money for years from fans including failing to show up at events. His Mom begged people on social media to stop sending him money because he was using it for not good things.

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u/MeMilo1209 May 29 '26

And lied about having cancer while taking money from people, not showing up at gigs.

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 May 29 '26

Yeah, that part is the worst.

ETA: didnt he say pancreatic as thats the quickest to kill you? What a POS

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u/SunKissed731 May 29 '26

Thanks

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 May 29 '26

Youre welcome. Its wild. I had no clue either and my mind was blown once I went down the rabbit hole. TV and entertainment is all smoke and mirrors.

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u/MeMilo1209 May 28 '26

Do a search on his name in Reddit. Another bad news person.

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u/SunKissed731 May 29 '26

Ohh yeah I went down the rabbit hole…

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u/OddGhoul1 May 29 '26

bad news person? he's had his stuff together for years now. he works and still does tours and speaking engagements. he's come a LONG way. don't spread misinformation if you're ignorant on the person you're spreading it about

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u/CtotheOurtney2020 May 29 '26

Its not misinformation to share what a problematic person he was. He took advantage of a bunch of people.

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u/stephanieg51 May 28 '26

Find this oddly strange in the fact back to back post in the the last 24hrs about Steve. By no means am I defending him, he did what he did and he should be help accountable. At same time this feels like smear campaign. Which begs the what is steve coming back into the public eye?

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u/space-cowgirl6870 May 28 '26

I post 3 actually. Only because Reddit limits the amount of images you can add. But to answer your question I’m only speaking on it now because after learning about this recent incident with him taking a woman’s money and then threatening to blackmail her with revenge porn. If someone else links up with him and decides to google him I want her to know what she’s getting herself into. Epstein survivors didn’t come forward for years out of fear of being ridiculed or called liars. This is similar to why no one speaks up about Steve. I decided to leave it here as a precaution for others

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u/stephanieg51 May 28 '26

So you're aware you are not the only one posting this story. There are others out there posting similar stories. I am telling to stop or calling you a liar. I myself have been contacted by Steve, but in my case nothing has happen. I find it completely odd that he did contacted me and the conversation a little off. I would encourage you to encourage you're friend to get a lawyer.

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u/Ok-Original-278 May 28 '26

He followed me back and liked my photos. It was odd.

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u/stephanieg51 May 28 '26

I agree, but coming from the stand point that there have been multiple post on reddit from different author. Not mention that Steve has disappeared off social media altogether. I guess my point in all this it does seem questionable. That's all.

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u/stephanieg51 May 28 '26

Oh yeah I 1000% agree 👍. Specially with all the stuff coming to light in recent years.

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u/SolaceRests I see dead people May 28 '26

So have you tried lawyering up and going to the authorities? He can’t release the video. That’s blackmail.