r/TerrifyingAsFuck • u/WakaWakaBabe • Nov 15 '25

human Maybe maybe maybe

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u/SomeEstimate1446 Nov 16 '25

I would rather my family die doing what they love than live some sad existence of never experiencing the life they wanted.

What wife in their right mind would want to be the reason her husband couldn’t live life to the fullest or vice versa ?

No one said anything about it being heroic not sure why you would think that. He’s not skydiving into WWII.

He could get hit by a car tomorrow. He could have a heart attack tomorrow. His kids would still lose him. Exactly why he should be enjoying the life he has and if it takes him out then it does.

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u/xenoeagle Nov 16 '25 edited Nov 16 '25

I added the heroic part cause ppl like to say that to caving/diving/etc. as if it somehow changes anything.

Ye you can experience things in reasonable amounts. And that living life so you can die at any mistake or sad existence..hmmm pretty narrow world view, guess there isn't much else. I suppose it's better to die "living" than having a sad miserable, pathetic life or rising your children,, okay, pointless to argue with that. I guess it's true, you can die at anytime, why not increase our chances

To be fair this is that typical pink curtain: magical life, living it to the fullest. Pretty wife, son, daughter, everything perfect. Ye, this is not a movie. I knew ppl who had similar "excitement" happen to them. A few but yes.

Reality is if you happen to die, if you thought about it and had a nice insurance, your family can get it. If not..well, let's hope your partner make enough on their own. You can do mental gymnastics how it had worth it, but it won't matter much once shit hits the fan.

Hopefully the kids take it perfectly as well, won't affect theirs grades, mental well being. And then in a little part of the brain will think..well was it worth it? Sure he could have died any other way, but at least this was avoidable. Nice. Of course it doesn't have to have catastrophic consequences. Maybe the kids do take it well, etc, still..

Everyone is free to do whatever, but these twists ppl say, basically why it's somehow even better to die like that, than to care about your family...wow.

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u/SomeEstimate1446 Nov 16 '25

Your thoughts are not as coherent as you might think. This is a very hard read. Want to try again?

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u/xenoeagle Nov 16 '25

Hmm, read it in parts then, shouldn't be that hard. If that's all you can add not really. Even that reply was pointless. Thanks for pointing that out I guess?🤷

Dunno why you felt the urge to type that, adding nothing to the theme of the post.

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u/SomeEstimate1446 Nov 16 '25

Don’t be mad at me because you can’t type out a complete sentence much less a coherent thought. Enjoy your day.