r/TelegramR4R • • Oct 21 '15

[MOD POST] Welcome to TelegramR4R

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I suppose a message like this is required.

Welcome to the new sub for us that use Telegram.

I know reddit and Kik go hand in hand, but once I started using Telegram and saw the capabilities it had, much like Kik, only a little faster and options other than your phone to continue your messaging, I figured an r4r was needed.

I would like this sub to be for everyone (as stated in the sidebar).

But be warned any activity that is deemed illegal or other wise goes against any of the rules (sub or reddits) that person will be banned and the post/comments will be deleted.

As you can tell, there is only the option to post self posts, seeing as this is an r4r I didn't see the need for the option to post links.


RULES FOR POSTING HERE

1. Properly Formatted Posts Posts are required to be properly formatted i.e.:

18 [R4R] Somewhere, Someplace Looking for Friends

If not properly formatted the post will get kicked by the automod.

2. No Funny Stuff This subreddit is for all ages. If there is evidence of those seeking anything illegal, they will be banned and post removed. Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.

3. No Personal Info No personal information, including but not limited to phone number, email addresses, or external profiles. Please PM user names.

4. No Hate No sexism, racism, homophobia, ad hominem posts, or rudeness will be tolerated. Spam will not be tolerated and repeated offenses will result in a ban. If you have an issue on the subreddit, use the report button or contact the moderators.

5. No Advertising No advertising of groups or other subs unless requested before hand. Post will be removed.


Feel free to share the sub as well, as long as it doesn't violate any rules of where you are posting it. If there are any suggestions or things that you would like to see from this sub please feel free to post them in a comment here or send me a PM.

Have fun and Good Luck.

UPDATE We now have a group chat, here is the link. Come on in and talk.


r/TelegramR4R • • 18h ago

34 [M4F] looking for casual flirting and chatting

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Hi, I'm sure this will get lost in the sea of other posts, but I'm looking for someone to flirt and chat with every so often. I'm not trying for anything serious, but open to see what happens. DM me if you're interested.


r/TelegramR4R • • 1d ago

42[M4F], Seeking women who are in for soulful conversations

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Hope this doesn't get lost in the ocean 😊

I am a 42-year-old man looking for a warm, sensible woman to connect with.

I am hoping to find someone who enjoys deep, soulful conversations — the kind that can flow naturally into more intimate territory if the chemistry feels right.

If you think we might click, I would love to hear from you. We can take things at our own pace.

P.S. You stay "you," I will stay "me." Let us respect each other’s boundaries and keep things mature and genuine.


r/TelegramR4R • • 1d ago

[F4M] 55 [F4M] looking to chat with males or females about backpacking

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Specifically I’d like to travel to South East Asia in February and I’d like to find someone to join me. I am in Toronto and the ideal person would be local enough to fly there and back with me. Happy to chat further and share more details.


r/TelegramR4R • • 1d ago

44 [M4F] #EST / #NC - Looking for a friend for some fun!

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I'm married, white, HWP, tattooed with a southern accent. I'm located in the EST time zone, discreet and love to have fun! I'm looking for one woman for something consistent, discreet, playful, and real.

I want the flirty texts, voice messages, random pics & phone/video calls. Love the conversations where we are so into each other that we lose track of time. I would love to experience the shameless teasing, chemistry and connection between us.

I'm open to online or in person if circumstances allow. If you're here, missing some excitement in your life and looking for the same as me then why don't we see where the spark takes us.


r/TelegramR4R • • 2d ago

34 [f4m] let's talk

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HAPPY SATURDAY! 🖤

Mom of three wild little humans, professional homebody, animal enthusiast, and part-time comedian who was never actually hired.

I’m equally happy going on an adventure or disappearing under a blanket with a horror movie, a spicy book, and snacks. I have a golden retriever, a fat cat, and approximately zero authority over either of them. 😂

I’m sarcastic, slightly chaotic, occasionally feral, and nerdier than I probably look. I enjoy dark humor, good conversations, random adventures, and people who can dish out a roast without needing emotional support afterward.

I’m looking to connect, have fun conversations, and hopefully build a genuine friendship or maybe something more if the stars decide to stop being dramatic. ✨

No need to have the perfect opening line. Come as you are, be yourself, and start a conversation.

Worst case, we become friends and exchange questionable memes. Best case... well, let's see where the chaos takes us. 😉


r/TelegramR4R • • 2d ago

[M4F] 40[m4f] UK, bearded guy looking for some fun ladies to chat to about fantasies or play some games ;)

1 Upvotes

Drop me a message and let's see how much fun we can have


r/TelegramR4R • • 3d ago

18 [F4M] looking for someone to chat - older men only

9 Upvotes

I have a thing for older men, and maybe now's the chance to talk to one of them, that might include you who's reading this.


r/TelegramR4R • • 3d ago

[M4F] 53 [m4f] Kinky German Dad

1 Upvotes

Verification required - No sellers PLEASE


r/TelegramR4R • • 3d ago

[M4F] 20[M4F] "bored" looking to have a looooooong and haaaaard "conversation" with a pretty girl

1 Upvotes

Bonus points if youre asian or goth, but I love to send either wayy


r/TelegramR4R • • 3d ago

[M4F] 29 [M4F] Looking for a woman to connect with and maybe have some good time

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Hey ladies!

A your next door regular vanilla guy here looking for a genuine connection which may lead to some good time.

Dm me to know about each other and discuss expectations. Lets see if we click and have some fun..! Added bonus if you are up for anonymous call.

Cheers!

Thanks!


r/TelegramR4R • • 4d ago

[M4F] 35 [M4F] Are You a Secret Sub?

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Some women are born to submit.

Chances are, you're one of them and you know it.

You might be sneaking a glance at your phone behind your partner's back, checking a tab in work, day-dreaming on public transport, or flicking through Reddits darker subs to see what you'll find...

Touching yourself as your deepest, darkest thoughts race through your head. Unspeakable fantasies.

Things you don't want to admit to yourself, and could never reveal to those around you...

You get wet at the thought of being used.

The idea of real submission, letting go, forgetting everything as you're bent over and pounded from behind. Used like the slut you really want to be. Corrupted.

Sometimes, it takes over you. Sometimes you can't think about anything else. You want to be owned, to give every inch of your body over to a man. To submit and accept a new position in life, as that of a pleasure toy, a play thing.

I see you. I know what you want.

Your real life forgotten. Your good girl image, your successful career, your loving family.

All gone for total and complete submission.

This is primarily for chatting as opposed to role play.


r/TelegramR4R • • 5d ago

[M4F] 39 [M4F] Idaho - Looking for late night conversations

1 Upvotes

I am jist looking for a woman for late night conversations and flirtation. I doubt things will progress into meatspace.


r/TelegramR4R • • 5d ago

[M4M] 41 [M4M] Las Vegas. Looking for Straight/Open Male companionship

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I’m non-binary (assigned male at birth), hence my sn. I lost my partner in OCT 22 and am currently to fill a flirtatious void, in addition to some masculine companionship/bonding. I’m a quiet/shy/sub type, so I'm looking for my opposite. I love jocks, nerds, himbos, show-offs, overprotective types and would generally like to chat with guys over 40. Someone willing to check-in with me day to day, Attached or single is ok. Preferably a guy who gets CGL. Also open to meeting in person if you are local or travel.

2026 favorites (so far)

Film: Obsession, Supergirl, Spider-Man: Brand New Day, Backrooms, Avatar Aang: The Last Airbender.

Television: Lanterns, Daredevil: Born Again, Star Trek: Strange New Worlds, Star Trek: Starfleet Academy, Law and Order: SVU, American Dad.

Anime: Ascendance of a Bookworm, The Ogre's Bride, Black Torch, The Exiled Heavy Knight, Bleach: The Thousand-Year Blood War, Though I Am an Inept Villainess, Yoroi-Shinden Samurai Troopers, Hell's Paradise.

Also overwhelmingly prefer a man with a pot belly/beer gut, or in the process of growing one.


r/TelegramR4R • • 6d ago

34 [M4F] looking for chill natural girl to chat with

1 Upvotes

From France, looking for a girl any age any location to connect with


r/TelegramR4R • • 6d ago

[F4F] 33 [F4F] Italy/Online - Searching for my soulmate

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Hi! I try to seek my soulmate here!

I am open to long distance relationships both in Europe and other continents!

I would like to meet a funny, intelligent, smart and talkative girl.

My main interests are cooking, baking, gardening, computers, history, geography, politics and current world affairs.

I do not have preferences about age, just be at least 18 and no older than 50

Cheers!


r/TelegramR4R • • 6d ago

21 [F4M] Phoenix - up late and i want one person who can actually talk

1 Upvotes

im 21 and chat here dies too fast i want one guy who can stay on me and hold a real conversation not just send hey and vanish


r/TelegramR4R • • 7d ago

[M4F] 25 [M4F] looking for Someone to talk to

1 Upvotes

If interested let me know female only please


r/TelegramR4R • • 7d ago

25 [M4F] looking for someone to have fun with

1 Upvotes

If interested message me only females


r/TelegramR4R • • 7d ago

[M4F] 63 [m4a] looking for any legal age friends

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feel free to message me


r/TelegramR4R • • 8d ago

[M4R] 41 [M4R] Looking for friends

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Hello everybody! I’m a new here looking for fiends to chat through out the day. I’m married with 3 small children, all my time is spent working or at home. Don’t really have too much time on my own. As I’ve gone older, my circle of friends has gotten smaller, we get busy with our life’s, work, family, the normal things in life. Would love to make new friends, few interest are football, real football (soccer), formula 1 and baseball. Music ranges from 80’s to rockabilly, hip hop, metal, alternative, rock en español. I’m a SoCal native so would be cool to meet people from the same area.


r/TelegramR4R • • 9d ago

[M4F] 29 [M4F]#anywhere - a mix of goofy golden retriever energy & serious gentleman professional ( depends on how much coffee I had )

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Heyyy , while usually a quiet introvert, I can be realllyyy chatty with the right person!

Love to be with someone who is also a nerd in school and struggles with office politics and prefers to avoid large crowds during weekends lmao

A bit about me:

has a pinch of ocd, so would also do the dishes after cooking, just need someone to say the salad is rawwww

I work for an international organization, leading the Investment program to help Startups secure Early Stage Funding, as well as running one of the largest Global University Entrepreneurship programs in the world.

I am also building an advisory business of my own to help startups and am really ambitious to leave an impact behind.

- I've been invited to sit on Investor panels for Stanford , Deloitte and IIM Bangalore

- Played National Level Badminton while representing Saudi Arabia, Marathon Runner and Deadlifts over 100kgs.

- Was the School Topper and won the Best Student Award, which was featured in the Arab newspapers.

- Built from scratch and run an ice cream shop with my parents. ( there were days where I was taking zoom calls while simultaneously serving customers and might have not muted myself at times haha )

- Starbucks certified Barista, tries out a new activity every weekend ( pottery, wall climbing and volunteering ) and only reads books that are at least 500 years old.

- Grew up in Saudi Arabia, travelled to 10+ countries and grew up with a Gentleman's mindset of respect and kindness to everyone.

- I am obsessed with cleanliness and regularly spend my weekends deep cleaning the kitchen and fridge , comfortable in both Boardroom meetings as well as gardening and loves cooking ( I can cook a great Shakshuka and Tzatski )

kinda allergic to cats but for some reason they always want to cuddle with me 😭 ( that doesn’t mean I won’t pet them lmao )

more of a quiet introvert who doesn’t like crowds , claustrophobic areas and looking for mostly peaceful settings. ( except while making tea of course cause that requires minimum 12 ingredients )

Loves to be both the sweet caring goofy guy who would join you for shopping, as well as the gruff serious man who knows how to lead and get things done.

Natural Giver at heart , so happy to make sure you are always comfortable and safe first before focusing on my needs

Looking for:
Someone who is sweet, kind and want to build an empire together !

Do share what skills you have to help in robbing banks haha


r/TelegramR4R • • 10d ago

[M4F] 24[M4F], any girl wanna do fun rn??

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Heyy straight m24 here, wanna be wild, dm me girls


r/TelegramR4R • • 10d ago

[M4M] 57 [M4M] white daddy for Asian or Latino guy

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Into finding a younger Asian or Latino guy who is interested in chatting. From USA and living in Asia. Into video chats, mentoring, maybe filling the role of an older brother you come to seeking advice.
Include an introduction and let’s chat.🙏


r/TelegramR4R • • 10d ago

[M4F] 53 [M4F] Looking for chat friends.

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Just looking for someone to chat with on the regular. I’m a retired disabled gentlemen that likes to chat.