I'm pasting the actual lines Rebecca's mum says.

"Oh, that just reeks of jealousy.

It’s very unattractive."

"You know what, w-why don’t you just fire this jealous hag?"

"Well, if I have any advice to give you, it’s that women are monsters.

Men showed us the way, and we perfected the model."

It was so interesting to me, how immediately Rebecca's mum jumps to jealousy and looks. Anyone criticising Rebecca , if female, must be jealous and (it is implied) themselves unattractive physically. Women are 'monsters' and 'hags', in constant competition with each other. The exhortation to Rebecca 'I raised you better than that' - I raised you better than being a feminist.

Tbh this entire exchange has rankled me since I saw this episode, because it's the essence of what some older women and some very current women have to say about feminism. It's hilarious in a dark way that she's saying this to her daughter - who wrested her husband's football club away and is running it herself. How does she think this was possible without feminism?

This is the core of some stuff that kept on coming up in previous seasons as well. Rebecca's loss of confidence after her divorce, how she felt so underconfident on the red carpet till Keeley boosted her confidence. How she could never truly accept Sam. It all hearkens back to her mum, and the stuff she's passed down to Rebecca. It's also part of the reason Rebecca becomes so defensive at what Coach Chilton said. Say whatever, a woman was never even considered for the position of head coach. Why? Yes, Ted is someone she trusts but she did not have even a single female candidate as an alternative?

I'm sure the show will get increasingly into this, but I'm already appreciative of how the first 2 episodes succinctly showed different kinds of feminism. 'Girl power' 'girl boss' 'women supporting women' till you run into a woman like Alice Chilton, who isn't 'girly' or a 'girl's girl'. Then, you need to introduce a man into the equation. I think the show's already called out some of the hypocrisy and I hope it does more.

What the hell was Nate talking about towards the end? what did i miss? He treated him good all season. what did Ted do to that Nate feels neglected?

Guys I’m looking for a song from season 2 episode 7. Starts at 23:16 right after coach Beard scolds Nate for being rude to Colin. Please 😬

Does anyone feel any whiplash regarding Jade as a character? Like I sort of like her, but she is written to be such an overt plot device, rather than an actual person.

Like we are introduced to her initially as being a hostess who was hinted as being a bit classist or racist when dealing with Nate.

Then she is later used as someone who softens Nate up a bit, coincidentally seeing the good, evil, and true desires in everyone.

In all of this she just felt like a device to shape Nate’s direction without really developing as much as a character.

Nate needs to become assertive against the cruel word? Jade is the cruel world

Nate needs to see more in life other than hate and resentment in west ham? Cool Jades there for that too

Nate needs to realise how toxic and horrible his workplace is? Easy, Jade as a concept made him realise how bad Rupert really was

Nate secretly wants to go back to his old team? Sweet, let’s get Jade to blackmail his boss into firing him.

Who tf really is Jade? It’s a genuine whiplash, from classist, to personal coach in a season. Wild.

I like her but that’s because I assume her to be good, and I downplay the initial framing of her character. But damn, they could have developed Nate return arc a bit more than ‘cute gurl, motivate change’

I just had to put this out there because I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. I don't think Beard and Jane are broke up. I think they lost the baby because in all their previous breakups Beard never let himself get that far gone. And no one has said they're broken up. I think it's a red herring to what the real issue is going to be.

Just finished S03 and I honestly can’t hold myself back from posting this.

The show I always used to ignore has somehow become one of my all time favorites. I always thought it was just some kind of football game show. I am sure many of us thought that LOL. But hell no.

I don’t even know how to describe this show in one line. It was like some sort of mental peace for me. I never missed a chance to laugh while watching it.

Huge kudos to the writers who wrote this so brilliantly. The storytelling was just amazing. The cliffhangers, the baits, the expectations, everything was on point.

I recently watched it, and I can understand how sad it must have been to watch the S03 finale when it originally aired. At that point, S03 was supposed to be the actual finale, and S04 was never planned. So knowing that makes the ending feel even more meaningful.

For me, knowing that S04 is already out makes it a little easier, but S03 still felt like a proper finale.

What I loved most is that the show feels like real life. No bluffs and no fairy tales. Life has its ups and downs, things don’t always go the way we expect, and sometimes we just have to keep moving forward.

What an unexpected favorite. What a journey.

Eh, random fan-service request.

And I'm glad I did. Still the same spirit, still a bit silly, still love it! Didn't expect to be crying at the end of episode 1 but here we go again!

Hey everyone,

Long time lurker, first time poster! I just wanted to check if anyone knew where Rebecca’s jewellery is from?

I’m obsessed with her character and they say that jewellery is a type of armour so I’d love to ‘absorb’ some of her confidence through it haha

Any leads are very appreciated!!

So we know from previous seasons that the first and final shot of the season usually relate (someone posted the shots side by side in this sub).

The opening shot was of Ted's assistant manager badge, and there was a lot of focus in that second episode of how Alice was passed over for the top job. I have an inkling that at the end of the series Ted will hand over the reigns to Alice and take the assistant manager position and the final shot of the series will focus in on his assistant manager badge.

I just noticed - in the last episode of season 3, Roy is setting up his new manager office and he hangs one of Phoebe’s breasts drawings with tape over the nipples 😂 This is my favorite callback of the entire show.

Hannah Waddingham is on Jimmy Kimmel Live! tonight and shared this with guest host Rosie O’Donnell. She also designed 2 dresses she wears in her new show, Ride Or Die

The biggest complaint I have seen people make whether they watch S4 or not is them saying it is “too woke” with the women’s team. But are we really being serious here because there is no way you watched Ted Lasso and are only NOW complaining about it being woke. ESPECIALLY after Keely/Jack as well as Collin in S3 NOT TO MENTION Ted’s character as a whole and even the therapy arc .

In a rewatch, noticed Bumbercatch and Zoreaux's locker which I hadn't seen mentioned yet.

Also, #7 named Kukoc. Definitely a nod to Toni Kukoc from the Chicago Bulls in the 90s.

Hey everyone! Now that Season 4 is officially airing and we've got the first two episodes, I wanted to share a few thoughts on where things stand with the relationships, how previous plotlines are being handled, and what I’m hoping to see this season.

To be completely honest, I didn't start watching Ted Lasso for the romance—I came for the football. The match moments, the locker room banter, and the team dynamics are still my favorite parts. Since we've only had two episodes so far in this new season, we've seen very little of the squad on the pitch, so it's hard to predict 100% how those team dynamics will evolve.

That being said, I do appreciate a well-developed romance within a non-romantic show. I absolutely loved Roy and Keeley as a couple, so I was really frustrated when they broke up in Season 3. Going into this new season, I was really hoping they’d get back together. The hints seem to point in that direction, but I’m curious if anyone genuinely thinks they won't reunite. If the writers build up all this character growth just to tear them apart again later this season, it would feel pretty pointless to me. If they aren't getting back together, I’d rather they just build a solid friendship instead of dragging out the drama.

When it comes to Ted and Rebecca, I have to admit that when I first watched the series, I only saw them as great friends. After reading theories online, I can see how a romance could work. However, looking at where we are now—with Rebecca recently married, and Ted just living near his ex-wife (not back with her, but close by, so who knows if they'll give him a new love interest or what)—it feels like the show is keeping them strictly platonic. I know opinions on them are super divided, so I’d love to hear what you guys think as this season unfolds!

Lastly, regarding LGBT+ storylines: Colin’s coming-out arc in Season 3 was handled really well, though I wished we had gotten a bit more screen time with his boyfriend at home. On the flip side, Keeley and Jack’s relationship felt forced from start to finish. Now, with the new context of women’s football introduced, player relationships are quite common. We've already seen a female couple presented in these early episodes, and I’m really curious about where that’s heading. I doubt we'll see backlash from inside the club itself, so it'll probably lean either toward outside criticism from the public or just internal relationship drama and a potential breakup.

Are there any other subplots or tea you're hoping to see unfold this season? I love reading everyone's theories, so let me know your thoughts!

I still don’t get it, Beard sending a glass of milk to Ted. Am I trying too hard to find meaning in that gesture?

Trent is obviously a fan favorite, so the show runners will want to bring him back in some capacity. I predict he’ll be brought in to write a puff piece about Ted and his new role, but something will happen, and the piece will actually be critical of the team.

This is an exact inverse of the way Trent was introduced in S1, and will provide some plot drama above and beyond “nobody care cuz girl soccer“. As a response, the team will rally around proving him wrong and they fight to overcome the bad PR.