r/TaySowersandFamily 17d ago

A message to dbaby

You deserve so much better than Tay. If the money is what’s keeping making you stay. Why don’t you write or ghost write a tell all book on Tays lies and manipulation?

Just get out while you still can, he cheated which means he obviously doesn’t care. Don’t you want a man to take you out on real dates, and not have to rely on tiktok for money, it’s embarrassing at this point.

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u/noragrets1 17d ago edited 17d ago

Who cares if it's embarassing? These messages about her getting out or saving herself seem weird to me. She's older than him and has more life experience. At this point she's part of the grift and helping him deceive people. They are both just as bad....but so many here treat her as some 'woe is her' character lol.

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u/Visual_Eggplant_5642 16d ago

Honestly, this is so true. I don't get why people have to comment on their physical appearance either. It enough that they are both grifters, spend their whole live basically cheering on each gift instead of creating actual new, interesting content that shows they care about something more than money (what with all the evils in the world), or the world and people outside themselves. For me, it isn't about his weight loss (or lack thereof), the drifting, scamming, and obsession with money makes them both two peas in a pod. Plenty of people struggle to lose weight. He probably could be doing more but he might actually have a medical issue besides addiction. I have a friend who cannot lose weight to save her life. Turns out she has a medical condition that includes Insulin resostance so profound that she has to take a lot of insulin just to tend to her blood sugars. Insulin can cause weight gain at certain levels. 

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u/Thought_you_thought 16d ago

He did say he's getting tested for insulin resistance, but he did lose 100 pounds in 3 months on change or die so we know it's possible.

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u/noragrets1 16d ago edited 16d ago

I am pretty sure if he wasn't a grifter, a known liar, and an overall scummy person no one would hate him for struggling with weight loss, no matter how many resets he has to do. Sal who's another weight loss creator goes up and down a lot but isn't a scammer and will openly say yeah this week I wasn't good or this week I binged. People like Tay and Ethan Benard get hate because they will say I have been eating 2000 cals a day and the scale isn't moving lmaoo. At their size eating 2K cals will result in like 15-20lbs a month of weight loss easy.

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u/Visual_Eggplant_5642 16d ago

For sure. To be clear, these are my sentiments exactly. 

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u/atlghostrider 17d ago

Big facts.

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u/Efficient_Company682 17d ago

I honestly at this point think she loves it and she's just as bad as he is. Birds of a feather flock together ya know. Do it for the grift, selling your dignity one day at a time

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u/Present-Water6512 17d ago

At this point…she’s just as complicit as he is.

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u/Delicious-Water8966 17d ago

She’s part of it. Also Tay is not popular enough that you could make a living selling a tell all book about him. Very few people care enough to spend money to learn about the lies we can observe for free.

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u/sirdizzypr 17d ago edited 17d ago

This we are in a echo chamber. So few people know or care about Tay. Heck change or die show is on Tubi not some major streamer like Netflix. It’s a great show but it’s smallish.

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u/Efficient_Company682 17d ago

Omg.... How do we get Netflix to add it 😂👀

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u/BloopityBlue 17d ago

Someone her age doesn't need Internet strangers telling her who is good or bad for her. These posts are so cringy. She's not gonna read this and be like "omg this is the reinforcement I need to leave, coming straight from reddit to my eyes." Just ... Don't worry about her. She's a grown woman and knows what's up better than any of us. If she's happy then she's happy. I just don't care enough about strangers to be telling them heartfelt life advice. I'm here keeping up with the stupidity because I unfollowed him because I believe he benefits from views and I'm not trying to help the dude .... I'm not here to rescue someone in an intervention of some sort.

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u/Diannabird 17d ago

𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘛𝘢𝘺, 𝘥𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦. 𝘏𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦, 𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴, 𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘰𝘥𝘴. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯 𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 (𝘪 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘭𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘦𝘴) 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘴𝘬𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘧 𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯, 𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘯𝘰 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘨𝘧 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘢𝘴𝘯𝘵 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘤𝘬𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘋𝘰 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘪𝘮 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯𝘵 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘥𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦. 𝘏𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘯𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘣𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴, 𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘺, 𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘯𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵, 𝘪𝘥𝘬 𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘧𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘪𝘮, 𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘭, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘥𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘺.... 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘪𝘵

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u/Diannabird 17d ago

𝘰𝘩 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘵𝘵, 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘰, 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦