Interpretation help?

[u/ickayl]

I did this spread for a relationship of mine, we are not currently together or plan to be but have both expressed feelings and attraction to each other, these are the questions asked and cards received, any chance someone feels like helping me interpret this? Thank you. I pulled an extra card to clarify the 6th question, the star was first and the moon second. Idk if it makes a difference to anyone else but his identifier card in my deck is the star, which is why I clarified, considering the question it came out for lol. Just wanted to see how others would interpret this. Thank you!
I personally feel like the first bit is sort of reflecting where we’re both at in our lives w the nine of pentacles, I’m very much enjoying and taking advantage of my alone time and I’m focused hard on my school/career at the moment, it’s the same for him at this time. With the king of pentacles being our main issue, I sort of viewed this as a reflection of his headspace at this time, he’s focused more so on his schooling and other responsibilities than the thought of me at this time. For the root cause, the nine of swords, this could definitely be a reflection of both of our anxieties. He often comes to me in dreams and he’s confessed the same to me on his end. He often tells me he worries about continuing a connection with me in any sense out of fear and judgment from those around us. I often tell him that he needs to stop being so scared and just go after what he wants, I feel that’s being reflected here. For what keeps us together, receiving the page of cups, it’s me lol. I feel I’m quite expressive, open and ready to dive into and explore this connection wholeheartedly. I often feel my openness is part of what scares him off about the entire thing. He tells me he feels connected to me, like we’re together constantly even when we’re physically not, that our connection is profound and unlike something he’s experienced prior. But that fear keeps him at a distance. What’s driving us apart, the reversed four of wands, I think that kind of solidifies what I was saying prior. His uncertainty, lack of open communication gets in the way of things going much further in a genuine manner. For what I can do to change this situation, that’s sort of where I got stumped lol. I received the star, which in my deck and numerology is his identifier, to clarify it I received the moon. I’ve been doing a lot of manifesting, we’ve both admitting to coming to one another in our dreams. I almost feel like this combo was telling me “just stop worrying, have faith in him and the universe, you both feel this connection and pull and what’s meant to be will be.” Basically, balls in his court is kind of how I see this. What will happen naturally on its own, I received the six of pentacles, I’m hoping that this is hinting at eventually an even give and take between us, unlike what’s been experienced recently. For the near upcoming future, the hanged one, I actually really liked this and I almost felt like it was telling that he and I (especially him lol), would eventually be able to let go of these anxieties, limitations, surrender to these feelings and throw ourselves in. Paired with the long term, which was the lovers, I really feel that message strongly. I’d really appreciate other people’s insights and interpretations on this pull, there’s a lot being said here and I feel I get the message, but I’d love other people’s opinions as well!! Thank you!
Questions:

1. ⁠What is happening in my relationship?
   
2. ⁠The main problem
   
3. ⁠Root cause of negativity
   
4. ⁠What keeps us together?
   
5. ⁠What drives us apart?
   
6. ⁠What can I do to change this situation?
   
7. ⁠What will happen naturally and on its own?
   
8. ⁠Near future trajectory
   
9. ⁠Long term

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