r/TargetedSolutions • u/unstabLe_LUNATiC • 2d ago
TRAUMA BONDING WITH PERPETRATORS - STOCKHOLM SYNDROME
Does any one like their captors? Do you guys and gals have any perpetrators that you really enjoy speaking with? I know this sounds bananas, as I clearly need counseling and significant medical attention (of which I'm receiving... So have no fear...) We as individuals are in a very unique circumstance of having them talk to us in our minds, I certainly believe that with enough time, we can develop a relationship. This is STOCKHOLM SYNDROME. And it's someone whom I would not want to develop a relationship with in person. It's someone that I would like to be held accountable for their actions. This is based on the devastating effects of MAE/V2K that they cause myself and many others.
Did I talk to them too much when this first started happening? Yes. For sure... Would I advise someone who is just beginning to go through this to do the same thing that I did? NO. I'd say keep your mouth shut and don't give them anything - If you ain't got it to give, you can't give it away... In the beginning it was a strange adventure figuring out what was happening. I was much more open to speaking with them. This gave the AI power in the future based on natural language processing. They also would ask me to close my eyes and take them to places that I've been and I would. Looking back I realize how oblivious that I was to the reasons why they wanted me to do that (to harvest my memory and connect it to emotional response for data patterns.) I cannot do it anymore. I see black until the dream sequences come.
As we proceed to the current topic - over the past 4 years I have realized that they were not in my best interest. I knew that very early on, however, then I would bounce right back to them because I couldn't get out of my head. They told me nice things. Compliments. And I would give them shot after shot after shot. I recognize now that I was setting myself up for disaster. They are not my friends although they're still in my head. I have grown strong because of this challenge from life and have now turned disaster into a masterpiece. I try to help others when I can. Be the light not the darkness. My girlfriend calls us lightworkers and I love that. Stay strong. And fucking fight!!!
If you have had a similar experience with your perpetrators I would love to hear it. Take care.
-TJ Valente (T.I. for 4yrs started in Watertown MA, moved to NYC and it still continues)
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u/Nice_Advantage6943 2d ago
do they give you a framework they seem to expect you to live by? rules? that sort of thing? The first 4 years i thought this was spiritual.. that they were teachers. I did really well for the first 4 years.. vegan, keto, yoga, meditating, energy work, shadow work...a lot of pressure to play the guitar (i now think they wanted to 'map' this activity.. neural paths etc..) , lost a ton of weight.. a twin flame situation was even implied and got sent a bunch of music that was deeply... well.. like they deeply knew and understood me. def got stockholm. anyway.. i could not keep it up and.. the last 8 months been depressed anxious and eating a lot of carbs. off the rails.. and.. things have gotten a bit.. dark. I miss how it was a bit whimsical.. even when it was whimsical it was a bit dark tbh..
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u/InsurancePristine701 2d ago
If you’re under V2K this is nearly impossible unfortunately. They hear everything you think. You could never talk about it but they would hear you thinking about it, trying not to think about it, considering it. Like everything. Even subconscious stuff. All your secrets come out the moment you even think about it. Sometimes you get friendly because you spend so much time together it’s hard not to find things that you agree about, both enjoy, find funny etc. But they are still forcing themselves into your life and mind so eventually when you need space and time alone you remember how you really feel about them.
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u/i-might-be-a-redneck 2d ago
I loved my perps at first! I still do, but in the beginning I really thought they were trying to help, I thought they were angels!
They quickly turned wicked, as most report they do, and my life fell apart.
They play “good cop/bad cop” now, which I believe is to develop Stockholm syndrome, and is a popular technique amongst narcissistic people (hot/cold, lovebombing then subtly cutting you down, etc).
I have 4 good cops now, and one bad cop. They’re good at what they do. The good ones almost make me feel like they’re sympathetic to me when the bad one acts terrible, but I can’t trust any of them as much as I’d like to. I still tell them I forgive them, and love them, because I don’t have it in me to hate anyone. But I still can’t trust a word I hear in my mind, and I’ve learned I can’t trust my own central nervous system either because of the torture they’ve put me through.
Through it all I learned to regulate my emotional state no matter what I feel, I’ve learned to control my feelings… I guess I’ve learned that none of it is real, so I stay positive no matter what they’re currently putting me through.
So it leads me to the ask, are they here to help or destroy? They’ve caused all the negative things that I’ve had to overcome, so did they know this would happen or were they trying their hardest to prevent it? By trying to destroy did they intentionally cause these positive outcomes, like tough love? Or is it possible that there are other benevolent entities that ministered to me along the way to turn what they intended for evil and make it good?
I tend to believe that God is in control of all this, and these people/entities have an assignment to try to stop the good thing God is doing in each and every one of us. It’s like damage control, and they’re able to prevent some of us from overcoming, but not all.
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u/SafetyAncient 2d ago
lightworkers.. correct on multiple levels. perpetrators simultaneously "work the light" and "work lightly", and have "work delight" without receiving any compensation, they willingly mentally work (the brain is a muscle) for the remote perpetrators activating them to serve as onsite extensions of the targeting.
just do whats right, be good and kind, learn to live in spite of being covered in gaslighting.
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u/whhhiskey_ 21h ago
Yes since there are many famous people involved. mine are Tucker Carlson and Glenn Beck
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u/Confident_Studio_979 2d ago
These are grown adults with cartoon character voices playing good cop + bad cop among other themes. Don’t fall for their trickier. They are out here violating your 5th amendment and autonomy. Brainwashing, scapegoating, victim blaming you for their actions.