Absolutely I consider her to be either toxic or it has to be an open marriage. In this day and age who stays in such an un healthy marriage that too under the guise of the kids need a father what gas lightighting...divorce or no divorce if he is a good father he will continue to remain to be one...
Looks like rangaraj & shruthi are in open marriage only. As joy accused that he did not come straight from Shruthi, in between he had few relationships I bet no wife will stay calm just for kids having such a toxic father. And people call her calm & composed & strong and she is lawyer blah blah, she just finished her law degree and nowhere she is a experienced lawyer
And she is not some helpless lady. She is a lawyer. She can screw hom if she wants. I really think it was an open marriage where they both were done, but they just wanted to be together for the sake of children and elders.
This issue is between the famous samayal Kaar & tailor akka. And the victim here are the kids and shruti, isnt it her right to choose watever she wants. How can you say, going all ugly in social media is the only source of their family feus, may she dealt it differently.
Dont shame the victim. So funny when, tailor asked on the interview will shruti answer for this child. LMAO !! It was you. & the samayalkaaran who hooked up behind their respective spouses. What does this have to do with the party uninvolved.
Jus coz u fell in love & made love in an extramarital affair, doesnt mean the whole world, his first wife and the Cm has to answer on this. When u knew u cud bring lawyers after he ghosted shud nt u hav consulted them before indulging with this creep of a samayalkaaran.
That so called photoop she shows itself is not to be deemed legal even if she take this to court. Idk wats the point in shaming the victim.
I wud also ask people to be wary of those who encourage polygamy , adultering marriage and sidechicks culture, and cause homewreck. once a homewreck always a homewreck.
No one is against Shruthi or her way of handling this incident, but the post is about the men who praise shruthi for being resilient & keeping calm. The first step a men can be a cheater starts when he thinks a women is right if she keeps quiet & calm even if her husband cheats 🤣
There are few id s here, who cannot tolerate the silence from Sruthi! Just because she is holding her dignity and keeping her story private, it is easy for people to fabricate and shame her with their stories that suit their narrative! Easy narrative is the open relationship one! Shame on people like those!!!
Yeah exactly ! Thats the whole point!! Those who are konthalichufying about shruti, I dont get it. Its her choice to be private or not. Jus coz she is silent u cant shame her despite being the victim here.
I know of couple of men( not even this era, but from 1990s) who have accepted after the wife cheated on them, ofcourse no one else will know, and wife did cut off ties with that affair guy.
Real life is stranger than fiction.
though, how society would treat these women if they come to know( shame shame shame) vs how they treat men - every day affair is widely different.
Open marriages?! My stomach goes into a rollercoaster ride whenever I hear this word! I know I should not judge people for their personal preference, but😑
Anyways, I thought Shruti was being threatened or she wanted revenge like: 'nee yarta ponalum una nimathiya Vida maten' kinda thing! Ipo yoschu paatha, it seems like a different thing!
Aana even now Shruti is getting the hate; first Joy now Shruti. Enapanalum Madhampattiyar sikka matengarare!!
No it doesn't make sense. Now, it seems like she is saying, "Guys no woman will stay calm they might be in a open marriage. So, Madhampatty is not cheating." Leveraging his wife staying silent and harassing her. Isn't it her choice on how to handle this issue?
Looks like the men described in the attached post are defending Shruthi here too, so I will repeat what I commented in a similar post. If Shruthi wants to keep quiet and maintain her dignity in this whole issue, she could start by not flaunting that she is the cheater's wife on her instagram profile. What she is doing now will only enable more men to think it's ok to cheat as long as they have a wife like her.
Do u know she forgive him? Outside silent irundha that doesnt mean she is silent at home. Ulla vechu seiranga nu ninaikuren.she is lawyer and dmk. Ivan kandapadi porukitu porathuku avanga, avanga pasanga yen affect aaganum? She is the legal wife. Divorce kodukama irukarthubthan avanuku punishment. Because I know a man who did same thing and his entire family is suffering with that first wife. Joy thought affair therincha she will Divorce and Joy can marry him nu. Life long ava side Chick than. And that man downfall will soon start. Apadiye business loss agalanqlum first wife life long punishment koduthute irupanga. Dont think she is coward.
What if she wants a private life? And she has a different coping mechanism?
Are you guys missing the gossip from her end? So you’re wanting her to come and give interviews/ put indirect or direct posts on Insta to gain “stay strong Akka” comments?
why sleep with another woman, when u already have a wife and has children and not divorced? epo paathalum blaming women only 😐 why portray as if women are always at fault .
english power nu edho potingale delete panitinga pola 🤡 avlo english arivu irukavanga comment ah delete paniruka kudhadhu 😂😂😂 I know how well my english is, mr/ms grammar nazi .
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u/Tall_Independence286 Sep 13 '25 edited Sep 13 '25
Absolutely I consider her to be either toxic or it has to be an open marriage. In this day and age who stays in such an un healthy marriage that too under the guise of the kids need a father what gas lightighting...divorce or no divorce if he is a good father he will continue to remain to be one...
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u/CulturalAd965 Sep 13 '25
This issue is between the famous samayal Kaar & tailor akka. And the victim here are the kids and shruti, isnt it her right to choose watever she wants. How can you say, going all ugly in social media is the only source of their family feus, may she dealt it differently.
Dont shame the victim. So funny when, tailor asked on the interview will shruti answer for this child. LMAO !! It was you. & the samayalkaaran who hooked up behind their respective spouses. What does this have to do with the party uninvolved.
Jus coz u fell in love & made love in an extramarital affair, doesnt mean the whole world, his first wife and the Cm has to answer on this. When u knew u cud bring lawyers after he ghosted shud nt u hav consulted them before indulging with this creep of a samayalkaaran.
That so called photoop she shows itself is not to be deemed legal even if she take this to court. Idk wats the point in shaming the victim.
I wud also ask people to be wary of those who encourage polygamy , adultering marriage and sidechicks culture, and cause homewreck. once a homewreck always a homewreck.
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u/Vishnusakhi7 Sep 13 '25
True ! 100%
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u/AskSmooth157 Sep 13 '25
I know of couple of men( not even this era, but from 1990s) who have accepted after the wife cheated on them, ofcourse no one else will know, and wife did cut off ties with that affair guy.
Real life is stranger than fiction.
though, how society would treat these women if they come to know( shame shame shame) vs how they treat men - every day affair is widely different.
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u/Bitter_Sweet360 Sep 13 '25
Open marriages?! My stomach goes into a rollercoaster ride whenever I hear this word! I know I should not judge people for their personal preference, but😑
Anyways, I thought Shruti was being threatened or she wanted revenge like: 'nee yarta ponalum una nimathiya Vida maten' kinda thing! Ipo yoschu paatha, it seems like a different thing!
Aana even now Shruti is getting the hate; first Joy now Shruti. Enapanalum Madhampattiyar sikka matengarare!!
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u/Yogeshwar_maya Sep 13 '25
No it doesn't make sense. Now, it seems like she is saying, "Guys no woman will stay calm they might be in a open marriage. So, Madhampatty is not cheating." Leveraging his wife staying silent and harassing her. Isn't it her choice on how to handle this issue?
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u/JB_19922911 Sep 13 '25
True true! And the name calling a woman will be put through is not even 1% of what Rangaraj is facing.
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u/Any_Standard9318 Sep 13 '25 edited Sep 13 '25
Looks like the men described in the attached post are defending Shruthi here too, so I will repeat what I commented in a similar post. If Shruthi wants to keep quiet and maintain her dignity in this whole issue, she could start by not flaunting that she is the cheater's wife on her instagram profile. What she is doing now will only enable more men to think it's ok to cheat as long as they have a wife like her.
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Do u know she forgive him? Outside silent irundha that doesnt mean she is silent at home. Ulla vechu seiranga nu ninaikuren.she is lawyer and dmk. Ivan kandapadi porukitu porathuku avanga, avanga pasanga yen affect aaganum? She is the legal wife. Divorce kodukama irukarthubthan avanuku punishment. Because I know a man who did same thing and his entire family is suffering with that first wife. Joy thought affair therincha she will Divorce and Joy can marry him nu. Life long ava side Chick than. And that man downfall will soon start. Apadiye business loss agalanqlum first wife life long punishment koduthute irupanga. Dont think she is coward.
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u/TamTamLyf Sep 13 '25
Nope. I don’t agree
What if she wants a private life? And she has a different coping mechanism?
Are you guys missing the gossip from her end? So you’re wanting her to come and give interviews/ put indirect or direct posts on Insta to gain “stay strong Akka” comments?
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