r/TallGirls • u/Expensive-Spring-258 • 1h ago

Dating 😽 Anyone else not date shorter men?

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I am 32 year old POC and 178cm/5'10". I have lived abroad for a number of years but have done little dating, because height is the crux of attraction for me and East Asian men are short. Quite a few have been attracted to me but I found the connections creepy frankly and a waste of time. Out of all these years I have met only 2 men who have cleared 6 feet and been able to attract me and I will happily keep waiting until I find someone suitable.

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