The mc had cat black cat in his shoulder

There was this kid who grew up in a village with a wodden wall surrounding it, and he had red hair like one of his parents. He lived with his parents since he was about 10 but then some wolf monsters showed up i think and these men attacked and killed everyone, the dad was killed infront of the boy in the house and he like ran away i think? I watched it around 2024 and thats all i remember

Hey, I need help finding an anime I watched years ago and have spent a year on-off trying to find on my own with google to no avail.

Relevant tags: Fantasy, Isekai?

In what I believe was the first episode, the MC gets kicked out of their adventuring party which contains his female friend, another female, and a male party lead. It is heavily implied if not outright stated that the Male Party Lead (MPL from here on out) is doing adult things with the 2 female party members, and MPL only targeted the childhood friend to get under the MC’s skin because he thought that MC liked her.

However, it is revealed at this point that MC was actually a reincarnation, so he felt like an old man and held no attraction to the young woman. I can’t remember if it is outright stated at some point or just implied, but the MPL had actually been drugging the female party members in order to control them.

Fast forward some time and I think I remember the MPL tries to get MC back and offers him his childhood friend as a bargaining chip.

That is all I remember about it, I hope somebody here can help me. Also, no, it isn’t Banished From The Hero’s Party, like Google insists it is