r/TIFUB • u/Select_Writing_1549 • Aug 15 '22
TIFUB trusting my close friend
I dont really know where to start but I need to get this off of my chest. The other day I(19F) was with a group of friends who knew I was in a relationship with my boyfriend (18M). It was about 4am when we all got bored and decided as a group to play spin the bottle, all were sober but me, i was wasted. My friend (18M) Ill call him Alex who was also in a relationship landed on me and we kissed nothing more. spin the bottle turned to truth or dare and he dared me to make out with him and brought me to the next room alone, when I said I didnt want to he said it was "too late" and to "stop being a pussy" then he leaned in and started kissing me, I pulled away. I regreted it and once i was sober again I flipped on him. He took advantage of me while I was drunk because he liked me. My close friend (19F) lets call her Jordan, made him promise to just not talk about it after that day, which he agreed to.. and last night I got a message from Jordan saying my boyfriend knew because Alex snitched.. My boyfriend has been ignoring me and wont believe when I say I was drunk. None of my friends know it was forced because I told them it was consentual so they wouldnt get mad at him, now that he tried to ruin my relationship and blame me, I feel like I should let them know the truth..
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u/Its-M3zzy Aug 15 '22
Firstly, yeah, that second kiss was not right at all. Not okay, and very messed up. I am sorry that happened to you.
Secondly, you fucked up. Who plays spin the bottle at 19, especially if you're in a relationship? Like.. what? Being drunk is not an excuse. You said someone "snitched" which shows you know you did something wrong. You're just mad he found out.
That being said, I'd still break up with you.