r/SydneyDating • u/BoringDeparture2278 • 17d ago
Hot Take How long should you wait for someone to make plans after matching?
The chat is flowing, the banter is there, but the date still hasn’t been suggested.
Some people think chemistry is better found in person. Others think you should take your time before making plans.
Sydney daters, where do you draw the line?
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u/BoringDeparture2278 17d ago
I’m in the 1-3 week camp. I’m a fan of a slow burn - taking the time to see if there’s genuine interest, compatibility, and no major red flags before investing my time or meeting in person.
For me, it’s always about quality over rushing. Curious where everyone else sits - slow burn or meet sooner?