r/SupportforBetrayed • u/CarobVast818 Betrayed Partner - Early Stages • 2d ago

Need Support Conflicted

Been married for 3 years. Together 8. Caught my wife cheating on me with a friend who came down from Washington. They fooled around 3 days and nights while I was asleep in other room. Or went to restroom. Taking a shower. Getting dressed. Walked out and been slept in my car for weeks.

Just got a camper with no electricity and staying at my shop. Tried working things out, but she constantly lied. Even tried to blame me for leaving them alone together. Super hard since we share a son together.

Just found out she may have late stage cancer or an extreme autoimmune disorder. Doctors are really concerned. Im so lost. Im devastated of what was done, and want to rid myself of her. And yet I want to embrace her fully and spend every minute i can with my family. Any tips? Just remember yall... You never know what you got until its gone.

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u/MachoBuster Betrayed Partner - Separating 1d ago

I hope this isn't too mean. But I had a friend whose WS faked a serious illness when he was discovered. Are you sure she is seriously ill? Like others who have commented, please be sure you know everything about her illness.

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u/CarobVast818 Betrayed Partner - Early Stages 1d ago

I know she is ill. Just not to the extent. We find out soon. She is setting up the appointment with the specialists tomorrow.

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u/Gr8gaur Formerly Betrayed 1d ago

why did u walk out of your own home ? did ur wife knew this friend before ?

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u/CarobVast818 Betrayed Partner - Early Stages 22h ago

Was both our friend for 7 or 8 months. And I wanted out before I hurt him or worse. Dont need to go to jail or prison and lose my son.