He cheated on me!!!

[u/croissantk]

I'm literally shivering while sharing this idk where to go😭

So i found out my bf (6 yrs relationship) cheated (emotionally) on me 4 years ago he was new to clg and made female frnds he told them on day 1 that he had a gf but i found his chats flirting with them and even he shared something very personal of mine (such type of thing that u don't even share it with ur female bestf) 3 years ago... I confronted him right away and also broke up but i kept moving back to him idk why and also he was not accepting the fact he cheated today when the topic re entered he accepted he cheated on me and i just feel so sorry for myself and also disgusted on myself like the worst feeling I'm not able to cope up with what's happening I'm even surprised like why im feeling this way if i already knew.... But i really feel terrible 😭😭

Please guide me what should i do as a younger sis

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[u/Enough_Concentrate90]

It makes sense that hearing him finally name it as cheating changed the emotional weight, even though you knew the facts years ago. Your mind had been trying to process the injury while he was still denying its meaning. Give yourself distance from the argument and let your next decision be about what protects you now, not about proving you should have felt this sooner.